"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feeling down? FORCE A SMILE.

Embrace

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I have a lot of depression issues due to chemical stuff that's messed up within my body. On some days for no reason I feel crappy, sad, just overall not happy. After a few minutes of my depressed state I realize that I hate it and refuse to be depressed.

I decided to force a smile for an extened period of time and after that, I felt I had more energy and I litterly felt happy.

Its almost like the muscles you use in your face to smile remind your body what being happy is like and it forces you to cheer up.

Give it a try, it couldnt hurt
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Smiling does help improve a sour mood. It releases chemicals in your brain synonymous with happy.(Endorphins I think.)
 

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hahaha... i actually do this... this is soo weird. I keep seeing stuff here that i actually do.
 

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I do this as well. I have also started to use a trigger song. When I feel in a fantastic mood, I listen to a song. Then, when I am down I listen to the same song. It gets me right back into happy mode!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Embrace

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CrunchyNut said:
I do this as well. I have also started to use a trigger song. When I feel in a fantastic mood, I listen to a song. Then, when I am down I listen to the same song. It gets me right back into happy mode!


I havent really thought about the trigger song idea. I was doing that naturally I guess. Whenever Iwas feeling down I'd put on a song that I like (probably was happy when I listened to it the first time) and it makes me feel more happy.

Good stuff
 

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Embrace said:
I have a lot of depression issues due to chemical stuff that's messed up within my body. On some days for no reason I feel crappy, sad, just overall not happy. After a few minutes of my depressed state I realize that I hate it and refuse to be depressed.

I decided to force a smile for an extened period of time and after that, I felt I had more energy and I litterly felt happy.

Its almost like the muscles you use in your face to smile remind your body what being happy is like and it forces you to cheer up.

Give it a try, it couldnt hurt

This is because every time you smile in sends endorphins (Chemical or whatever associated with happiness) to your brain. This in turn will cheer you up. Just force one big smile. Works wonders.
 
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