Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
No sh!t. I make closer to $7k/yr. And I get laid.jay07 said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Feeling deeply insecure about my salary.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Serenity
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I make a respectable amount of money compared to others at age 22, I own an apartment, my own car and I'm even a firefighter (extra responsibility, work at a huge factory with high fire risk).
I could use this to try impress women, but I never have and never will. Partly because I hate bragging and partly because I want people to like ME and not my possessions or occupations.
If I run out of money and know I won't get any for a week (happening a lot after I bought the apartment), I'm still happy and don't give a sh!t about it. It's waste of time to worry about things I can't change, I make the best out of the situation.
Don't be driven to make more just to satisfy women, it will only limit you with women until you reach your goal, and this could be never. Don't give a sh!t about it, don't let women dictate your salary.
If they start complaining about your salary, walk away.
If they start asking early about it, don't give them a clear answer.
I could use this to try impress women, but I never have and never will. Partly because I hate bragging and partly because I want people to like ME and not my possessions or occupations.
If I run out of money and know I won't get any for a week (happening a lot after I bought the apartment), I'm still happy and don't give a sh!t about it. It's waste of time to worry about things I can't change, I make the best out of the situation.
Don't be driven to make more just to satisfy women, it will only limit you with women until you reach your goal, and this could be never. Don't give a sh!t about it, don't let women dictate your salary.
If they start complaining about your salary, walk away.
If they start asking early about it, don't give them a clear answer.
Serenity
Moderator
I agree that eventually she will know, just not too soon.Espi said:
True, but it's useless if you don't want the type of women who cares about your money.Espi said:
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
here is the deal you have to take a step back and look at he picture
i'm not saying you don't need to make more money. i'm not saying you need to accecpt where you are or any **** like that.
dude, i think the key here over all is that the guy that you described she left you for is basically repulsive. your ex wife is literally a *****.
my point being, do you honestly think if you had 100k in the bank she would not have left you for the guy who has 200k? or if you had 150k and she ran up on a dude clocking 500k a year she would not have seduced him?
there is no amount of money that you could have made that would have cut the gold digger switch off in this woman
i'm not saying you don't need to make more money. i'm not saying you need to accecpt where you are or any **** like that.
dude, i think the key here over all is that the guy that you described she left you for is basically repulsive. your ex wife is literally a *****.
my point being, do you honestly think if you had 100k in the bank she would not have left you for the guy who has 200k? or if you had 150k and she ran up on a dude clocking 500k a year she would not have seduced him?
there is no amount of money that you could have made that would have cut the gold digger switch off in this woman
Mantis Toboggan
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Yeah. By pregnant psychos and drug addicted lunatics.Bible_Belt said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I'm supposed to meet a girl with my girlfriend for a threesome tonight. Neither of them care how much money I have. And I fvcked the psycho last night, who btw isn't preggo any more. I'm going for three women in 24 hours, a new personal best. And I'm poorer right now that I have been in a long time.
hockeyfreak79
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^^^Great mentality to have Grewd, wish I had that at 22.^^^Grewd said:
Maybe I'm just lucky but I'm pretty sure the last 3 chicks I've dated all made more $$ than I did. 2 out of the 3 owned their own houses. The 28yr was pretty much a sugar momma, that sh*t just feels weird after awhile. She would easily spend 3-4x more than I would in a month.
I'll admit it I'm frugal as h*ll but I don't care, it's me and it works!
TRUE story no doubt woman want to know you can support them but now a days I swear it seems like they are the ones bragging and showing that they don't need to be. BUT yes eventually that sh*t will come up.
A chick will not keep you for the long run if you do not meet her monetary standards, but it does not prevent you from laying them. Social status will ultimately help you get laid, and if you know how to pull th emotional strings in a woman, which is what they succumb to, you will get laid. And that is all one really needs. I can land a job making 40-50k a year as a single man and live as if om making 100k if im not spending it on a wife and kids.