So, I used to get plenty girls in my late teens and early twenties, then I was in a 8 year ltr with my kids mom who is bpd. We broke up 2 years ago and haven't banged in 1 year. Since we broke up, l got some numbers here and there. But nothing ever pans out. I found out I was showing to much desperation after finding this site, so I cut that out. I'm only 5'5" and used to be really skinny. I joined the gym earlier this year and have become a lot bigger. I even have abs. I bought a bunch of nice clothes and started wearing my hair movie star style. I have noticed women actually checking me out. I haven't really been going out gaming, cause I have been working on myself.
So I go into a bunch of stores daily for my job. Last week I'm in a store and walk past this hb8 that works there, she smiles at me. Then on tue, she sees me and says hi and starts a big convo with me. She was showing extremely high IL. So before I leave I tell her to give me her number and she quickly gives it me. I don't call her and I run into her today. IL doesn't seem as high. I ask her what she's doing tomorrow night. She says she has no plans. I tell her, good cause I'm taking you out. Then she says I don't think that is a good idea cause cause of our jobs. I say okay that's cool, say bye and walk away without looking butt hurt. I'm guessing she maybe has a man or likes someone else now. I think if she was really interested it wouldnt matter if we kind of work together. We don't even work for the same company.
I know it's her loss, but it's hard not being bummed out. I haven't been with a woman for a while and I'm getting really sick of never getting to a 1st date. Whenever I do get numbers, they always seem to have a boyfriend when I call them or one even flat out hung up on me when I called.
I'm not really sure what kind of answers or comments I'm looking for here. I just really needed to vent. Maybe I need to get more aggressive and start trying to get more numbers instead of doing it when it's convenient for me. But it's hard to find time when I work and have my kid during the week.
So I go into a bunch of stores daily for my job. Last week I'm in a store and walk past this hb8 that works there, she smiles at me. Then on tue, she sees me and says hi and starts a big convo with me. She was showing extremely high IL. So before I leave I tell her to give me her number and she quickly gives it me. I don't call her and I run into her today. IL doesn't seem as high. I ask her what she's doing tomorrow night. She says she has no plans. I tell her, good cause I'm taking you out. Then she says I don't think that is a good idea cause cause of our jobs. I say okay that's cool, say bye and walk away without looking butt hurt. I'm guessing she maybe has a man or likes someone else now. I think if she was really interested it wouldnt matter if we kind of work together. We don't even work for the same company.
I know it's her loss, but it's hard not being bummed out. I haven't been with a woman for a while and I'm getting really sick of never getting to a 1st date. Whenever I do get numbers, they always seem to have a boyfriend when I call them or one even flat out hung up on me when I called.
I'm not really sure what kind of answers or comments I'm looking for here. I just really needed to vent. Maybe I need to get more aggressive and start trying to get more numbers instead of doing it when it's convenient for me. But it's hard to find time when I work and have my kid during the week.
