"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Feel like a man*****

Ramrod

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Went to a party last night. Kissed a girl, not very long (****block friend dragged her away). Both drunk. I was sucking on her lip. I got her name, but not her number. I don't like kissing random people. Hell, I'm not even sure if she remembers it. You know? I feel like such a little man***** now. We go to the same university, but it's a big one and I don't think I'll see her again. Kind of sucks.

Anyone know what they would do in this situation? How about some words of comfort?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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magickarl

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Go home, take a hot bath, and get yourself a few pints of Ben & Jerry's.

Then, put on either Titanic or The Notebook or The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.

Or do it again, and block the ****blockers better in the future so you can get some tang.
 

oakraiderz2

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Words of comfort? Stop being a dbag. Stop acting like a chick.
 

bud_2005

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I think you should take the "man" out of the topic title
 
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