"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Feel like a man*****

Ramrod

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Went to a party last night. Kissed a girl, not very long (****block friend dragged her away). Both drunk. I was sucking on her lip. I got her name, but not her number. I don't like kissing random people. Hell, I'm not even sure if she remembers it. You know? I feel like such a little man***** now. We go to the same university, but it's a big one and I don't think I'll see her again. Kind of sucks.

Anyone know what they would do in this situation? How about some words of comfort?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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magickarl

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Go home, take a hot bath, and get yourself a few pints of Ben & Jerry's.

Then, put on either Titanic or The Notebook or The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants.

Or do it again, and block the ****blockers better in the future so you can get some tang.
 

oakraiderz2

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Words of comfort? Stop being a dbag. Stop acting like a chick.
 

bud_2005

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I think you should take the "man" out of the topic title
 
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