i actually left him a brief email telling him i had a great time and that i would love to do it again! this was like 4 days ago! I take it to be a blow off since i havent heard from him but i was just curious i guess how you would handle it if a guy decides to pop up again say, like after two weeks of not calling, the proper way to respond... Perhaps I took it all too seriouslly? He does live about an hour north of me though, could the distance be an issue?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"feel free to give me a call"
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