Feel Bad for hitting my girl , what to do

[omardacool]

Whats up bros I recently got Nose surgery cause i broke it earlier this year its been healing for about 2 weeks now so this past Friday me and my gf get into a argument a stupid one (because i picked her up late from a club) but she is a very violent person numerous times she has put her hands on me punched me slapped me threw things at me but I never hit her or nothing, this time she punched me in my nose while i was driving and I started bleeding due to the surgery i just had , I still did not hit her so i tried to drop her off at her mothers that got her more angry she started messing my car up (audi 2014) she ripped my rear-view mirror that's when i got a little pissed off and kicked her out my car she started following me as i walked in my apartment , she threw her heals at my ripped my shirt off tried to punch my nose again that's when i snapped and gave her a body shot, she crumbled and started yelling " he is hitting me help help!!" i got scared did not want to get arrested so i just ran to my car and drove off i stayed at a friends house , the next day i text her saying she has to leave by 6pm, witch she did but i feel really bad for hitting her, i dont know if i was wrong but i never put my hand on a female till now , and it was only a body shot I promised that's after she hit me with like a 42 piece combo and messed my car up completely, she was tipsy when i picked her up and i did not have one drink at all cause i was on meds because of my surgery , but i havent called her i do miss her i blocked her number, but i dont know wtf to do to be honest,

 

[logicallefty]

" he is hitting me help help!!" ,

Hey at least you got a shot in on her. I had one punch me in the nose and then do similar to that above to the 911 dispatcher, yelling "help help he is attacking me!!!". I was standing 5 feet away saying "calm down I am not going to hurt you". Police were called and I got arrested but she didn't. It was dropped.

Looking back on it, I kind wish I really had got one in on her to make it worth my trouble.

 

[marmel75]

What kind of ***** ass dude let's a woman hit him repeatedly?? There is no way a woman would ever think of hitting me due to my physical build but if one did it would be the last time because she would probably pee her pants she would be so scared from the reaction she got out of me...and I wouldn't even need to lay a hand on her because she would know I could snap.her neck without a second thought if I wanted to

 

[Tictac]

If you lie down with dogs, don't be surprised when you wake up with fleas.

 

[VladPatton]

All of this, ALL of this, could of been prevented if you would of dumped her immediately after she hit you the first time. This is how motherfückers loose their shıt and kill bıtches. After she smacks you that first time you end it right there without question. Even that poor Audi got a piece of the action, daaaaaamn, man.

 

[omardacool]

All of this, ALL of this, could of been prevented if you would of dumped her immediately after she hit you the first time. This is how motherfückers loose their shıt and kill bıtches. After she smacks you that first time you end it right there without question. Even that poor Audi got a piece of the action, daaaaaamn, man.

Yea when my friends saw my car they said the same thing .." I would of killed that *****"

 

[Jaylan]

Your reaction is understandable, but a man should lay down the law long before it gets that bad. If a woman is ever verbally abusive towards me, she gets 1 warning and then is dumped for a second offense. And Im not talking about regular shi!t talking that goes on during arguments in a relationship. Im talking about legit disrespect that crosses a line and is done to really try and mentally or emotionally hurt you.

When it comes to physical abuse, I dont think I could give a second chance. Ive never had a woman strike me, so I dont know if I could give another chance to a woman I really cared about...but Im of the mind that I would dump her then and there. I wouldnt lay a hand on my woman, so I dont want her laying hands on me.

I would have never stayed with your woman if I was you OP. The kind of crap she was doing would have gotten her dumped quick. I wouldnt have hit her, but I woulda squeezed and shook the hell out of her. Again, I dont fault you for what you did. She kept crossing lines, and now she'll know better in the future.

 

[In2theGame]

Whats up bros I recently got Nose surgery cause i broke it earlier this year its been healing for about 2 weeks now so this past Friday me and my gf get into a argument a stupid one (because i picked her up late from a club) but she is a very violent person numerous times she has put her hands on me punched me slapped me threw things at me but I never hit her or nothing, this time she punched me in my nose while i was driving and I started bleeding due to the surgery i just had , I still did not hit her so i tried to drop her off at her mothers that got her more angry she started messing my car up (audi 2014) she ripped my rear-view mirror that's when i got a little pissed off and kicked her out my car she started following me as i walked in my apartment , she threw her heals at my ripped my shirt off tried to punch my nose again that's when i snapped and gave her a body shot, she crumbled and started yelling " he is hitting me help help!!" i got scared did not want to get arrested so i just ran to my car and drove off i stayed at a friends house , the next day i text her saying she has to leave by 6pm, witch she did but i feel really bad for hitting her, i dont know if i was wrong but i never put my hand on a female till now , and it was only a body shot I promised that's after she hit me with like a 42 piece combo and messed my car up completely, she was tipsy when i picked her up and i did not have one drink at all cause i was on meds because of my surgery , but i havent called her i do miss her i blocked her number, but i dont know wtf to do to be honest,

I wont shame you for hitting her because i have been in your shoes before. When a Female keeps pushing a guy to the edge, hes bound to snap. If you keep poking at a tiger and he's just sitting there, best be sure he's getting annoyed until he claws your head clean off. Thats the problem with society, they view Women as untouchable but that is not true. If your hitting a Woman just because then yes, that is male abuse hitting the weaker sex but when Women start hurting you then its time to hit back.

 

[( . )( . )]

Sounds more like you hit a sailor on shore leave. I know modern grrrrls are crazy as sh!thouse rats on the booze but if you're putting up with that I'm not so sure which of you has the balls here.

 

[hudpes]

I know wtf you should do. Put some ice on your nose.

Oh, as for the girl, she's history, one that shouldn't be repeated. Violent tendencies much? Next.

 

[Bible_Belt]

To be fair, he does live in Brooklyn. Maybe she's a Jersey girl.

Whether it's against men or women, I like leg sweeps, trips, and throws better than strikes. It gives you much more leeway to create doubt about what happened. If the cops come and you have ripped up knuckles and she has a busted face, you're probably going to jail unless you have a serious injury that she caused. But trip her, and you can just say she was drunk and fell down. Getting your wind knocked out from hitting the ground will take the fight out of anybody.

Obviously, I don't mean that as advice in how to abuse women. I mean it from a legal perspective as a way to keep you out of jail after any altercation, against a man or a woman.

 

[omardacool]

To be fair, he does live in Brooklyn. Maybe she's a Jersey girl.

Whether it's against men or women, I like leg sweeps, trips, and throws better than strikes. It gives you much more leeway to create doubt about what happened. If the cops come and you have ripped up knuckles and she has a busted face, you're probably going to jail unless you have a serious injury that she caused. But trip her, and you can just say she was drunk and fell down. Getting your wind knocked out from hitting the ground will take the fight out of anybody.

Obviously, I don't mean that as advice in how to abuse women. I mean it from a legal perspective as a way to keep you out of jail after any altercation, against a man or a woman.

Lol I'm the one bruised up with a swollen nose lol she's good but I hear you lol

 

[omardacool]

I know wtf you should do. Put some ice on your nose.

Oh, as for the girl, she's history, one that shouldn't be repeated. Violent tendencies much? Next.

Lmao yeah I did that already but I just left her alone cut her off changed the locks and everything ..was really scared of going to jail but after speaking with a few peoples they are telling me I should press charges but ima just leave it alone f that

 

[Epimanes]

Nerver tolerate the intolerable. By doing so your telling her its ok. Boundries are important.

 

[skinnyguy]

It amazes me how some guys have tolerance for this. I would probably impose a one strike rule if a girl tried that with me

 

[omardacool]

It amazes me how some guys have tolerance for this. I would probably impose a one strike rule if a girl tried that with me

Yea I should've left the first time it happened but when she damaged my car that was it it's going to cost me a grip to fix this smh

 

[omardacool]

Hey at least you got a shot in on her. I had one punch me in the nose and then do similar to that above to the 911 dispatcher, yelling "help help he is attacking me!!!". I was standing 5 feet away saying "calm down I am not going to hurt you". Police were called and I got arrested but she didn't. It was dropped.

Looking back on it, I kind wish I really had got one in on her to make it worth my trouble.

Yea that's what I was scared about the most I did not want to get arrested ..

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

God damn. She hit you in the nose after surgery? While you were driving too? I would have punched her in the fvcking head for that. I mean, if a girl hits me it probably wouldn't hurt unless it's above the collarbone or a cheapshot below the belt. But if it gets really annoying, I would push her away really hard. If she goes in for a cheapshot or above the collarbone like I said, I would have punched her....hard......really hard. She starts screaming I'm an abusive man or something, I just walk away or drive away and think nothing of it. Throw all her stuff out of my place (if she lives with me) and if anything gets stolen, not my prob. She comes back to me, I will ignore her unless she talks to me. If she does "B1tch, gtfo!".

 

[handle]

Take her out of the picture immediately. It shouldn't have got to this point, but any person who's hitting another person shouldn't be surprised if they get hit back. You should feel weird about having to resort to violence, that's healthy. But if the scenario you're describing is accurate then of course it makes sense that you responded that way.

Obviously, you should avoid getting in these kinds of situations as much as possible. Even if justifiable, you don't want to be in a position where you're hitting someone.

 

[Masculinity]

Troll.