Feedback...potentially awkward situation!

[Serg897]

Im a big social dancer (Salsa/Swing/ballroom) and this is a huge avenue for my meeting of women - its also a fantastic date idea.

However, when you start to date multiple women that go to dance in the same places it increases chances that may start finding out about each other!

The situation, in brief:

I meet girl A Salsaing. I've been on only 3 dates with her. Hasn't gotten further than a kiss, but tonight its likely to get further than that. Girl A wants to learn swing, so Im taking her to my usual venue on Mondays for swing (and giving her a *private* lesson beforehand..hmm). However, there is also Girl B, who I met at this place, and took dancing to a different place last week (first date with her - also kiss closed). She tells me today that she will be at the Monday venue tonight, when I already made plans to show up with Girl A. I told Girl B I may show up, knowing full well that I'll be there.

Im probably making a bigger deal out of this than it is, but I would like feedback. What I plan to do is simply introduce them to each other and pretend its no big deal. I'll just do my best to make sure girl B doesn't see me walk in/leave with girl A.

Thoughts?

 

[5string]

You'll be generating interest from these gals. Drives em nuts to see that another woman is interested in the same man as they are. Don't flaunt it. Be cool, confident and polite. Do this, and they will be drooling over you in no time.

 

[Captain]

However, when you start to date multiple women that go to dance in the same places it increases chances that may start finding out about each other!

Don't hide it. You don't need to broadcast it out loud, but don't hide it, don't make a big deal out of it, because if you don't, in the end they won't either.

 

[Serg897]

Thanks for the responses gentlemen. This makes me feel better.