"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Demon Wolf

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I am a RAFC. I am trying to get over my shyness and paranoia (I was assaulted as a child). So as a result I had trouble telling the difference from peoples affections and actual assaults and as a result I was a little trigger happy. Yes I am getting help.

I have been having as many conversations with people as I can. I work in a phone fundraiser on campus and it has helped a lot. I try to ask people as many questions about themselves as possible while not talking about myself unless asked.

I was talking to this one chick in art class and she was maintaining eye contact with me, her pupils were dialated. Faced me partially and was smilling back. I teased her about her being wuss for not liking hiking since she planned on talking geology next semester. Which I am majoring in. I was not sure whether or not to ask her for her digits. Got a nice laugh from her. Then I talked to a few other students and did not look at her for the rest of the class.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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woods

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How can you be "not sure" whether to ask for her digits? You can read two threads on here and know that you ALWAYS ask for digits.
 

Hoogie

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I'm not sure what were discussing here.... if its the digits thing, then yeah... woods has pretty much rapped that up.

But either way... congrats dude.
Got no idea what it must be like to go through that kinda stuff but it sounds hard and it also sounds like your doing pretty awesome! Reading signs and getting the basics down.
Nice work... but yeh... definitely get those digits
 
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