Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Demon Wolf

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I am a RAFC. I am trying to get over my shyness and paranoia (I was assaulted as a child). So as a result I had trouble telling the difference from peoples affections and actual assaults and as a result I was a little trigger happy. Yes I am getting help.

I have been having as many conversations with people as I can. I work in a phone fundraiser on campus and it has helped a lot. I try to ask people as many questions about themselves as possible while not talking about myself unless asked.

I was talking to this one chick in art class and she was maintaining eye contact with me, her pupils were dialated. Faced me partially and was smilling back. I teased her about her being wuss for not liking hiking since she planned on talking geology next semester. Which I am majoring in. I was not sure whether or not to ask her for her digits. Got a nice laugh from her. Then I talked to a few other students and did not look at her for the rest of the class.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How can you be "not sure" whether to ask for her digits? You can read two threads on here and know that you ALWAYS ask for digits.
 

Hoogie

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I'm not sure what were discussing here.... if its the digits thing, then yeah... woods has pretty much rapped that up.

But either way... congrats dude.
Got no idea what it must be like to go through that kinda stuff but it sounds hard and it also sounds like your doing pretty awesome! Reading signs and getting the basics down.
Nice work... but yeh... definitely get those digits
 
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