"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I was at the gym, lots of people and a chick is on one of those high stairs machines, Its loud ..., I don't know if she has seen me or not, and I didn't know her interest level.

I was thinking of just walking up to her and saying "hey , your a good looking girl, whats your phone number ? " .

I know sounds GAY, but do you have any other choice in this situation
I say the your good looking part just so she knows WHY I am asking for her phone number..
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I never tell a girl that's she's good looking until I get her naked. If that's the first thing you say it is doubtful it will work. "hey, your good looking, what's your phone number" is like saying "hey, you look good enough I guess. Give me your phone number." Telling a girl that she's good looking will flatter her, but it won't necessarily make her like YOU.

Don't go for a number until you've given her enough of a reason to give it to you. You have to build up a little rapport first. Engage her in conversation, and if you feel like she might like you, tell her you need to move on to your next station, but you'd like to take her out soon, so she needs to give you her number.
 

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Dude...rapport rapport rapport. You can't ask for a number until you have talked to the girl for at least 5 minutes, preferrably more.

I usually just start up conversations...then make it so the chick offers the number. I like this method the best cause its fool proof. If she offers it to you without you even asking, you know she's open to going out with you. And you know its not a fake. Bam you're in. Just hold a normal conversation with her, be flirty, and if she mentions hanging out/getting to know you better/tells you to call her sometime/gives you her number, you're in. If not...oh well, you just met somebody and had an intelligent conversation with somebody new...no loss.
 

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Its seldom a girl will just say, "hey, let me give you my number," but if they're digging you, they'll drop obvious hints that they want you to ask for it. For instance, if you mention going to a concert soon, and she says she wants to go see that band too, that's her telling you she wants to give you her number.

Then, all you have to do is ask for it. End of story
 

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The Forms said:
Its seldom a girl will just say, "hey, let me give you my number," but if they're digging you, they'll drop obvious hints that they want you to ask for it. For instance, if you mention going to a concert soon, and she says she wants to go see that band too, that's her telling you she wants to give you her number.

Then, all you have to do is ask for it. End of story

ehh...you might not get it the first time you talk to her. But believe me, if they're into you (i guess you probably have to be somewhat good looking) they'll offer it to you (or ask for yours) at some point.

I used to work at a grocery store, I flirted with every hottie that I worked with, and we had to wear those dumbass aprons with the big ass pockets in front. Several times, I'd just be working minding my own business, and the chicks would just come up to me and stuff their numbers in my pocket...no asking, hell, hardly any hinting even.

Worked for me, I seldom ask for a chicks number straight off...cuz thats how you end up getting rejected/getting fake numbers/bulls.hit excuses; "my phones broken" is my personal favorite (although I don't hear that anymore cuz I don't ask anymore). You just gotta keep alot of "friends" in your stable and sooner or later you can weed out the ones that are into you and the ones that want to stay friends.

Its good stuff, I really just devoloped it because I was always one of those dudes who was paranoid (abnormally so) of rejection. And you can't get rejected doing this method, cuz you know for 100% certain if a girl likes you. I hate when you ask for a number, she gives it to you, and then on the date you can already tell it ain't goin nowhere because she just gave you the number and went out on a pity date or whatever. F.uck that! If a girl gives you her number without you even asking...it doesn't get more obvious than that. But enough of my rambling. I'm goin to bed. later.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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that works well after you build a social network. But I just moved to a new city and I woulden't want to wait until i got lots of friends to get sex
 
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