"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KneghtRyder

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I was at the gym, lots of people and a chick is on one of those high stairs machines, Its loud ..., I don't know if she has seen me or not, and I didn't know her interest level.

I was thinking of just walking up to her and saying "hey , your a good looking girl, whats your phone number ? " .

I know sounds GAY, but do you have any other choice in this situation
I say the your good looking part just so she knows WHY I am asking for her phone number..
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Forms

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I never tell a girl that's she's good looking until I get her naked. If that's the first thing you say it is doubtful it will work. "hey, your good looking, what's your phone number" is like saying "hey, you look good enough I guess. Give me your phone number." Telling a girl that she's good looking will flatter her, but it won't necessarily make her like YOU.

Don't go for a number until you've given her enough of a reason to give it to you. You have to build up a little rapport first. Engage her in conversation, and if you feel like she might like you, tell her you need to move on to your next station, but you'd like to take her out soon, so she needs to give you her number.
 

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Dude...rapport rapport rapport. You can't ask for a number until you have talked to the girl for at least 5 minutes, preferrably more.

I usually just start up conversations...then make it so the chick offers the number. I like this method the best cause its fool proof. If she offers it to you without you even asking, you know she's open to going out with you. And you know its not a fake. Bam you're in. Just hold a normal conversation with her, be flirty, and if she mentions hanging out/getting to know you better/tells you to call her sometime/gives you her number, you're in. If not...oh well, you just met somebody and had an intelligent conversation with somebody new...no loss.
 

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Its seldom a girl will just say, "hey, let me give you my number," but if they're digging you, they'll drop obvious hints that they want you to ask for it. For instance, if you mention going to a concert soon, and she says she wants to go see that band too, that's her telling you she wants to give you her number.

Then, all you have to do is ask for it. End of story
 

ValleyDJing

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The Forms said:
Its seldom a girl will just say, "hey, let me give you my number," but if they're digging you, they'll drop obvious hints that they want you to ask for it. For instance, if you mention going to a concert soon, and she says she wants to go see that band too, that's her telling you she wants to give you her number.

Then, all you have to do is ask for it. End of story

ehh...you might not get it the first time you talk to her. But believe me, if they're into you (i guess you probably have to be somewhat good looking) they'll offer it to you (or ask for yours) at some point.

I used to work at a grocery store, I flirted with every hottie that I worked with, and we had to wear those dumbass aprons with the big ass pockets in front. Several times, I'd just be working minding my own business, and the chicks would just come up to me and stuff their numbers in my pocket...no asking, hell, hardly any hinting even.

Worked for me, I seldom ask for a chicks number straight off...cuz thats how you end up getting rejected/getting fake numbers/bulls.hit excuses; "my phones broken" is my personal favorite (although I don't hear that anymore cuz I don't ask anymore). You just gotta keep alot of "friends" in your stable and sooner or later you can weed out the ones that are into you and the ones that want to stay friends.

Its good stuff, I really just devoloped it because I was always one of those dudes who was paranoid (abnormally so) of rejection. And you can't get rejected doing this method, cuz you know for 100% certain if a girl likes you. I hate when you ask for a number, she gives it to you, and then on the date you can already tell it ain't goin nowhere because she just gave you the number and went out on a pity date or whatever. F.uck that! If a girl gives you her number without you even asking...it doesn't get more obvious than that. But enough of my rambling. I'm goin to bed. later.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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that works well after you build a social network. But I just moved to a new city and I woulden't want to wait until i got lots of friends to get sex
 
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