i've known this girl for sometime now. her older sister is married to my older brother. i met her about a year a half ago at my brother's wedding. the first time i saw her, i thought she was really hot, but i had a girlfriend at the time. but now that i dont have a girl friend, i've been trying to get at her. we've hung out a couple times and i really like this girl, she is sweet, smart, we have really good conversations, not to mention she is really hot. i dont really know how to act towards someone like her, dont really want to come on too strong and scare her away... she is not the typical girl. she is very innocent and has never had a boyfriend, my sources are very reliable. i know she likes to spend time with me, and enjoys my company, and i feel like we have good chemistry.
so i went ahead and to her that " i think she's great and i really like her" and she response with " im really flattered, if you mean it like that, i dont know what to say, youre a great friend to have". the family thing kind of weird for her, and she is "unpositive that it will lead anywhere"! its not the answer i was anticipating. what does this mean? should i keep trying? or give up, is it too early to give up? maybe she's responding this way due to inexperience? or what? i really like this girl so a little feedback please, thanks
so i went ahead and to her that " i think she's great and i really like her" and she response with " im really flattered, if you mean it like that, i dont know what to say, youre a great friend to have". the family thing kind of weird for her, and she is "unpositive that it will lead anywhere"! its not the answer i was anticipating. what does this mean? should i keep trying? or give up, is it too early to give up? maybe she's responding this way due to inexperience? or what? i really like this girl so a little feedback please, thanks