"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fedor Emelianenko

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Possibly one of the greatest athletes walking the earth today. Searched and have yet to find a thread just dedicated to this legend.

Best highlight reel, seriously makes me want to get into Judo and Muay Thai.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=77QoN2P90b0&feature=related

Wish Dana White would stop being a prick, agree to Fedor's contract with his management. Which would let him fight in UFC and also do his Sambo tournaments (a nationally known sport in Russia).

Thoughts? Post your fav vids, pics. I'll post up a whole documentary on him later. He's a very humble guy, lives a simple life and is a very smart businessman.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IMO there are a few heavyweights who could possibly beat him, but unless Fedor's management and the UFC can come to an agreement we'll never see it :(

Also of note, Fedor said that he would fight Overeem if he could pass a drug test :crackup:
 

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It's a pity that he is not that young anymore otherwise he could have started a long reign as ufc heavyweight champion.
I think Lesnar is physically stronger than him but no his mind and technique are inferior and this facts make Fedor the man i would bet on.
 

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Fvcking beast! Fedor is more machine than man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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