"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bossman90

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Where did I screw up here?

Me: hey its bossman, from the club.

Her: her name
told her I would take her home, trying to push forward after amking out with her.

Her: I m dressed come get me.

Me: outside

Her: goodnightmornings. Thanks again.
Got this no later than 10 minutes after I left.

Me: U2 honey. :)

Me: Are you working tomorrow night?

Me trying to pull her on a date.

Her: maybe I dunno

Me: Hey ive been board all week. We should do something this weekend.

Her: yeah if I'm not working :).

Me: sounds perfect. What does your schedule look like?

Her: Ugh. I work tonight tomorrow. But I don't go in until 3 am tomorrow.

Me: Aw:) How about we go to the range alter during the day(saturday) and get drinks afterwards. Or we could get drinks first and then go to the range? more fun that way, but only if your crazy enough to try.

Her: that sounds fun actually. In either order. LMAO.

Perfect, what time do you think you'll be up tomorrow?

Got no response.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Having a hard time following this but A. Never under any circumstances tell a chick you're bored, that tells her you're lame and uninteresting. Also asking her if she is working tomorrow night was kinda lame. Instead of telling her you guys should do something. you should have just cut to the chase and asked her "Hey would you wanna grab some drinks and go to alter Saturday night?" or something along those lines, If she agrees then you say "Okay I'm thinking around (whatever time you have in mind)" , wait for her repsonse and then say okay I'll hit you up on saturday. Leave it at that, do not contact her until day of date unless she texts you first . If she denies your original offer then you say "Okay maybe some other time" and then you wait for a counter offer.
 
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TheWolfMan

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Also, the text asking what time she thinks she'll be up was not necessary. Cool ur jets, let her contact you.
 
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You were kind of all over the place. An attractive man is put together and in control. You kind of left the ball in her court too much. She should be irrelevant to your plans.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was trying to lead. I took a really long time to respond to her, she might have thought I was uninterested.
 
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