"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bossman90

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Where did I screw up here?

Me: hey its bossman, from the club.

Her: her name
told her I would take her home, trying to push forward after amking out with her.

Her: I m dressed come get me.

Me: outside

Her: goodnightmornings. Thanks again.
Got this no later than 10 minutes after I left.

Me: U2 honey. :)

Me: Are you working tomorrow night?

Me trying to pull her on a date.

Her: maybe I dunno

Me: Hey ive been board all week. We should do something this weekend.

Her: yeah if I'm not working :).

Me: sounds perfect. What does your schedule look like?

Her: Ugh. I work tonight tomorrow. But I don't go in until 3 am tomorrow.

Me: Aw:) How about we go to the range alter during the day(saturday) and get drinks afterwards. Or we could get drinks first and then go to the range? more fun that way, but only if your crazy enough to try.

Her: that sounds fun actually. In either order. LMAO.

Perfect, what time do you think you'll be up tomorrow?

Got no response.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheWolfMan

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Having a hard time following this but A. Never under any circumstances tell a chick you're bored, that tells her you're lame and uninteresting. Also asking her if she is working tomorrow night was kinda lame. Instead of telling her you guys should do something. you should have just cut to the chase and asked her "Hey would you wanna grab some drinks and go to alter Saturday night?" or something along those lines, If she agrees then you say "Okay I'm thinking around (whatever time you have in mind)" , wait for her repsonse and then say okay I'll hit you up on saturday. Leave it at that, do not contact her until day of date unless she texts you first . If she denies your original offer then you say "Okay maybe some other time" and then you wait for a counter offer.
 

TheWolfMan

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Also, the text asking what time she thinks she'll be up was not necessary. Cool ur jets, let her contact you.
 

Kbomb

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You were kind of all over the place. An attractive man is put together and in control. You kind of left the ball in her court too much. She should be irrelevant to your plans.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bossman90

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I was trying to lead. I took a really long time to respond to her, she might have thought I was uninterested.
 
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