"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fed Up: Which would better to say

Colinski282

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Long ass stroy short, met a chik and she showed intrest, coupld of months later still hadnt seen her. Now she sayin she movin. I Finally realized she was an attention *****, and i felt played.

So i got one of two things to tell her:

I dont give a damn if your movin, Fvck You (short simple and to the point)

Or go with some **** like: Im tired of you being on the road, its too hard to swallow bein alone. I need someone to hold, i must of tried to tell you a thousand times. But they were just things you ignored.
(god damn that sounds wussy)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Agree with those above. Stop wasting your time.
 

McKindley

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Why do you have to say ANYTHING to her? She's moving, right?

I wouldn't say number one, because its pointless. it'll just make her mad for no reason. No point in burning bridges.

And number two sounds like a caricature of an emo song that was written by a twelve year old.

Don't bother thinking that anything needs 'closure' or anything like that. Once she's gone you'll forget about her.
 

Luveno

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She's moving eh...


There is ONE option: Invite her over for SEX. That is all. If she won't do that, she is no longer of any use to you and you can freely forget about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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