"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fed Up: Which would better to say

Colinski282

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Long ass stroy short, met a chik and she showed intrest, coupld of months later still hadnt seen her. Now she sayin she movin. I Finally realized she was an attention *****, and i felt played.

So i got one of two things to tell her:

I dont give a damn if your movin, Fvck You (short simple and to the point)

Or go with some **** like: Im tired of you being on the road, its too hard to swallow bein alone. I need someone to hold, i must of tried to tell you a thousand times. But they were just things you ignored.
(god damn that sounds wussy)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Agree with those above. Stop wasting your time.
 

McKindley

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Why do you have to say ANYTHING to her? She's moving, right?

I wouldn't say number one, because its pointless. it'll just make her mad for no reason. No point in burning bridges.

And number two sounds like a caricature of an emo song that was written by a twelve year old.

Don't bother thinking that anything needs 'closure' or anything like that. Once she's gone you'll forget about her.
 

Luveno

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She's moving eh...


There is ONE option: Invite her over for SEX. That is all. If she won't do that, she is no longer of any use to you and you can freely forget about her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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