Fed Up Waiting

[dearsappho]

Im fed up waiting for this chick to decide what she wants so I have to force it out of her this second. Dont wanna waste no more time on her if she cant be arsed to make an effort.

Thought I tell her that Ive been offered a date tomorrow with another chick and ask if she minds if I go...her reaction may tell me how she really feels/kick her arse in gear...

Yes or No?

 

[Fenderules]

tell her its now or never. if she is reallly interested she will say yes.

 

[Tyrone Biggums]

Don't wait, give ultimatums, tell, or even ask her s**t. If she was interested she would have made it very clear. Start looking for other women.

 

[Andromax]

Yeah man, I dont think I'd ask her that sh!t. I mean the date was a great idea, but let her find out that you are gonna be dating someone. Don't ask her if it's okay if you can date someone, because Hell Yeah, it's Okay, and you dont need her to affirm that.

If it takes you going out and having fun to get her to realize that she wants you, then maybe you will be able to date both of those girls untill you decide which you like best.

Either way though, man. I wouldnt suggest having a conversation like that with a chick. It makes you look kinda desperate, like you'd rather be dating her than the other hotty you are going out with (which is an okay feeling to have, but not to EXPRESS through sappy convo). I can see someone commiting numerous chumpy acts if they were to engage in that conversation, one thing will lead to another and then you will be frustrated, and you will have lowered her respect/desire level of you.


Andromax

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by dearsappho
Im fed up waiting for this chick to decide what she wants so I have to force it out of her this second. Dont wanna waste no more time on her if she cant be arsed to make an effort.

Thought I tell her that Ive been offered a date tomorrow with another chick and ask if she minds if I go...her reaction may tell me how she really feels/kick her arse in gear...

Yes or No?

Don't ask her if having a date with another girl is okay. TELL HER! She has no control over you.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I can see you're in need of wisdom.

Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.
-- Proverb

Hesitate and you are lost. Don't ask this girl for any permission for anything, you are in control of your own conditions, not her. If you're this distraught with this chick so as you'd think that telling her you're going on a date with someone else, you my friend are whipped. Snap the leash, do what's best for you. No amount of 'forcing her hand' is going to tell you what you already know, because she's already told you by her behavior that you are not her first priority and it sounds to me that you'd like to get into some girl who you are the first priority to.

And BTW, if you tell her you've been 'offered' a date from another chick, she'll see right through your bullsh!t anyway. Go spin more plates. Date 'a lot' of women.

 

[Big Bad Wolf]

I agree with the above posters, just go on the date. If you must say something to her, then tell her that you are no longer waiting on her to decide on how she feels or what she wants from you and that you are moving on. Don't wait on women, I assure you they won't wait on you.

 

[dearsappho]

You are all right...Im a c***...lol! Gotta get my head together...sheesh!