"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fear of confrontation

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I have this huge fear of confronting people, when somebody is verbally attacking me, i never fight back.

This can be traced when i was 14 yrs old, i had this huge fight with my father and never saw him or talk to him ever again (im 21). this was by phone, so this explains why i hate using the phone too.

the thing is that i hate this shiet, i already acknowledge the problem, but dont know how i cant change this, because its like a trauma i have. and it is affecting me, when hoes try to disrespect me, or when other people try. i just ignore them.

I dont give a shiet about what people think, im past through that , but when im being disrespected i have this thing in my mind bothering me saying i cant take this shiet, but then i also have the fear of confrontation.

any advice?

by the way, thank you guys. this shiet is very personal. nobody knows.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Please read these posts first before anything:


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136262

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=16903

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=142003

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=135838

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141177

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138456


Now, yes, that IS a LOT of reading.
But this is what I want you to do.

I want you to use your analytical brain, to read and comprhend this material, and then use your creative brain to put this into action by integrating it into your life.


So begin by doing some intellectual study. Feed your mind the ideas and principles that will propel your mind, to give strength to your Will, which will propel your Body into ACTION.


Get informed first.
 
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Sometimes it's not easy to stand up and say what you gotta say to people. But, you must over come your fears just like in any other situation. Cause if you don't confront people they won't know how you feel. An example from my experience would be. I caught my girlfriend doing something that I didn't like so, I tell her what the business is and she better not do it again.

Cause, if I didn't tell her how I felt she probably would of kept doing it. Which, is why you have to confront people about sh!t. Or its gonna keep happening.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jflex,
do you have any questions?
 
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j-flex said:
I have this huge fear of confronting people, when somebody is verbally attacking me, i never fight back.

This can be traced when i was 14 yrs old, i had this huge fight with my father and never saw him or talk to him ever again (im 21). this was by phone, so this explains why i hate using the phone too.

the thing is that i hate this shiet, i already acknowledge the problem, but dont know how i cant change this, because its like a trauma i have. and it is affecting me, when hoes try to disrespect me, or when other people try. i just ignore them.

I dont give a shiet about what people think, im past through that , but when im being disrespected i have this thing in my mind bothering me saying i cant take this shiet, but then i also have the fear of confrontation.

any advice?

by the way, thank you guys. this shiet is very personal. nobody knows.
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You need counseling. Seek help.
 
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Jack, this is what he's trying to do here, bro.


I want to know whats going on in his head right now after he read all that stuff.
Surely he must have made some insights to help steer him somewhere.

I dont think the guy needs professional help as of yet.
But I want to know what hes thinking.


I will say this, there was a guy who posted some rules about being a man, and he included 'Take up Martial Arts' , and I wholeheartedly concur!!
But some guys actually laughed at him for suggesting it.

I was talking to a real life guru guy the other day, he told me the same thing about something 'very weird' that is "happening to young men today".

he has a hard time fathoming how many men today do not place value on morals, ethics, codes of honor, self respect, and the value of a physical discipline like the martial arts.

Dude, arent you curious as to just what the fvck is going on with the men today?!
 
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