"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
fear of approaching: how long did it take u to overcome?
- Thread starter david90
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah, sounds simple enough, unfortunately, I'm having trouble locating my balls right now.
Fear freezes me man. It's always easy to say, just push past it, but when it hits me, it's tough.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
Try asking yourself before you approach, "How can I make this girl feel good?" instead of "What can I do just in case this doesn't go well?"
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I will say this one more time, as i have said this in many others threads....
PRACTICE!!
The more you practice, the easiyer it will become, until;l you will get to a stage where it will be second nature for u to approach the hottest girls! Think about it.. MOST things in life are hard in the start, but once u get enough practice, it becomes 2nd nature. weather it be Driving, gymnastics, your soccer skills, knowing how to swim, EVERYTHING!
Laterz...
lloyd_bank$
Don Juan
"first you do the thing you're sh1t scared of, then afterwards you get the courage to do it"
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.