"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fear...is taking over my life

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612_Da_Playa

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Fear.
Fear of approaching
Fear of failure
Fear is starting to enrapture my life essentially. And no I'm not a shy hermit at school. Quite the contrary, straight A student, great presenter, involved in school, great looks(however I stress looks don't mean squat) however I just can't overcome failure. I want to get out of that perfectionist mindset. I put this here for more of an adult response rather than in the high school forum. This essentially is my last stanza as a DJ and just in completing myself I believe. I will have no further use for this site once I figure this issue out. Suggestions would be much appreciated
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chase Dat Skuht

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You wont be done with yourself. Ever. Theres always room for improvement. Always new stuff to learn.

So you realize you're afraid? Take control, be a man, and fix the problem from the root.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Lord Shinra

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Practice at every opportunity you get in approaches, and learn to accept everything in life. Good and Bad.

Clear your mind. Sometimes you need to close your eyes in order to see.
 
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