"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I met this girl couple of weeks ago at the house where i live, she visited with her friends and i was able to strike up conv with her
i found her on FB and sent this message, i know its not that funny

ME: Aren't yu the girl, who came to my house with your friends....
Happy fourth of July. Just wanted to say hi

HEr: Hey hii... u got me right! im the one..

She lives in a different state than i do

what should i reply, and escalate this
Suggest some thing please
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did you tell her you wanted to add her? If not is a little weird and I don't see too many chances for you unless you talked to her for a while. Next time if you meet somebody who lives out of state you have to try to go for the lay if possible. If you are just having fun and wanna hang out with her. You should tell her "you know what. I like you, I'm gonna add you on facebook in case I'm around there". Or something like that. It's very low risk and most girls actually like that. Just let this one go.
Do not:
poke her
message her
comment or like anything she says and anything she posts unless you think is really funny or something.
You are only gonna smother this one. In her head you are just some random guy she met. Don't be the weird guy she met and won't leave her alone on facebook.
Hope that helps
BTW work on your opening, that was weak
 
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i agree the opening was weak as hell, i should i asked for some advice from seniors here :)
 
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I just entered into a long-distance relationship with a chick I met on a discussion forum a few years ago, and who has been on my Facebook for the past seven months. We live two states away. I think you really have to be schooled in the psychology of seduction, be a poetic wordsmith, and be a highly valued guy, to have a realistic chance, because there are tens of thousands of guys living closer to her than you and "out of sight, out of mind."

Read the book the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, and read Roissy (roissy.wordpress.com).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dereklovesugly said:
What's the point of dating someone you don't bang?
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There's not much rationality to it, but sometimes people make such a connection they decide to throw caution to the wind, along with indulging in airline tickets and weekend road trips. Emotion trumps logic. The chances of anything lasting are very small but at least you can say you tried. Meanwhile, it's good to keep the eye out for local ladies.
 
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