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Favorite Pull Excuses?/Pull Process

nicksaiz65

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Hey guys. I’m working all of my sticking points in the game so I can ensure that I am living the life that I deserve!

One issue I really have is… pulling. Out of curiosity, what are some of you guys favorite pull excuses to bring a girl home? I like saying “to play some drinking games,” to play a board game or Cards Against Humanity, or just to have some drinks back at my place.

Would be interested to hear what excuses you all are using. Also, what is your general pulling process like? I could definitely use some assistance on that.
 

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Lol. These days girls are the ones that initiate the pulling sequence. All you've got to do is to agree and lead them out the venue
 

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The best one I've heard is "I need to charge my phone". If the emotions are high, I see how it can work.
 

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I don't really have one, when I was younger most of the time I didn't need one because they usually let it be known that they want to fvck me already so I didn't need any pulling strategy.

Don't worry too much about it, if she's attracted you won't have to use a pulling strategy.
Everything just flows naturally
 

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I need to feed my (insert animal here)
one that was used on me ...."Wanna walk me to my car?"
"Hey i'm getting tired of...(something going on there)...I'm gonna take off. I can drop you by your place if you want.
 

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I remember a few times, but not real strategies. Went with the girl to the movies on my car. After the movie, on my way out, I plain asked her:

Me: What now? Sex?
Her: I dont know
Me: I will take that as a yes.

Another occasion, diferrent girl. We went to diner and she paid half. After dinner we went to the park and just hang and talked. She suddenly asked me what I wanted to do.

Me: Like right now? I woulndt mind f0cking ur brains out,
She: Mmmmm Ok, you just convinced me.

Another time at a party. We ran out of ice. I offered to go buy some more. Just before leaving I asked "Anyone wanna tag along?" And this girl I Just met that night was like yeah, I will tag along. On the way to the store we started making out, on the street, on the park, we were pretty drunk.

Me: Wana have sex?
She: No
Me: How about now?

This kept going for a few minutes until she said yes. The Ice never made it to the party.

No real strategies needed
 

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Hey guys. I’m working all of my sticking points in the game so I can ensure that I am living the life that I deserve!

One issue I really have is… pulling. Out of curiosity, what are some of you guys favorite pull excuses to bring a girl home? I like saying “to play some drinking games,” to play a board game or Cards Against Humanity, or just to have some drinks back at my place.

Would be interested to hear what excuses you all are using. Also, what is your general pulling process like? I could definitely use some assistance on that.
Old school JB after party. Ideal for a club or bar & party scenario. After a date, bounce location, and going back is any excuse from movie or drinks. In clubs, absolute urgency I found to be king. Let's go. Take her hand and lead her like a child. When I say urgency, I am talking a terrorist has a bomb strapped to his chest. Tbh girls already decided. You just esculate and light the match to set everything off. Just give an excuse to Gtfo and esculate.
 

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My 2 go-to’s I use 99.9% of the time are wine (if she’s down) and wafflehouse (if she needs a little more time/comfort or has ASD—kinda regionalized but just replace with whatever popular late night food choice). These work in pretty much any situ.

Just “What’re you doing later? Grab waffle house with me. Tell your friends we’re splitting a waffle” (you can always use this to get initial compliance and then change your mind). Or “Do you like wine? I was about to crack open a bottle of [whatever] later. You should come.”

Most important thing is pulling with 100% certainty. Like I pulled one girl to show her my space heater cause it swivelled and I played it up like it was the most badass thing ever—all she needs is a reason.

Also text all your #s “Wya” ~15 min to close. If she responds to that she’s down and then just “Come to [whatever bar]” or “Grab waffle house with me” or “I can pick u up and we can grab a nightcap.”
 

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1. Hot tub (better if it’s yours) I don’t have a bathing suit with me. That’s fine I’m sure I have something f you can wear and if not naked is fine. Jump while she’s changing…
2. I cook a mean carbonara, I have a full bar have you ever had a Negroni? Tired? I have an espresso machine I’ll pull you a shot. Let’s go watch <insert popular show> I have an 85” oled.
3. **** I forgot X, let’s stop by my place to grab it and I’ll give you the $.50 tour.

the best pulls are the ones that flow naturally
 

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I need to feed my (insert animal here)
one that was used on me ...."Wanna walk me to my car?"
"Hey i'm getting tired of...(something going on there)...I'm gonna take off. I can drop you by your place if you want.
Hahah bro I feel so dumb.
I went out drinking with a ballerina over the weekend. Date 1. Kiss closed. At the end of the night she asked me if I wanted her to drop me home because I Ubered. I took it literally, I thought she was being polite and I didn’t want to trouble her so I said it’s fine I can handle myself hahaha. Thinking back, we could have laid.
 

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Hahah bro I feel so dumb.
I went out drinking with a ballerina over the weekend. Date 1. Kiss closed. At the end of the night she asked me if I wanted her to drop me home because I Ubered. I took it literally, I thought she was being polite and I didn’t want to trouble her so I said it’s fine I can handle myself hahaha. Thinking back, we could have laid.
 

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Having a pet helps a lot. That way you can tell her you need to feed it and if she wants to come over to see it. It works alot because it's casual and women love animals.
 

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Hey guys. I’m working all of my sticking points in the game so I can ensure that I am living the life that I deserve!

One issue I really have is… pulling. Out of curiosity, what are some of you guys favorite pull excuses to bring a girl home? I like saying “to play some drinking games,” to play a board game or Cards Against Humanity, or just to have some drinks back at my place.

Would be interested to hear what excuses you all are using. Also, what is your general pulling process like? I could definitely use some assistance on that.
I think it's subjective. Meaning what will work with one girl might not work with another. But yes, there are a few standards that will appeal to most women. I mostly use #3, but to make it perfectly clear, I don't use it because my goal is to sack'em, but because literally, that is something I do on my own for my own pleasure. Meaning it is my world and I'm just allowing the girl to take a peak of it.

1) Pets - If you have one you can either tell them you need to feed them or better yet, meet them.
2) Hot tubs - If you have one, well that is really your first date. Or a really good excuse to end up the date there and I mean I don't have to tell you the window of opportunity there.
3) Bonfires/Rooftop hangouts - If you have a fireplace, backyard, or roof top where you can make the night unique with some wine by the fire or stargazing on the rooftop, well there you have it.
4) Straight up bring it up - Confidence and "swag/humor" are critical here, otherwise, it will come across as pushy and creepy.


Modern Man Advice
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have failed you guys
Assume she's dtf. Obv exercise common sense. I pulled a college girl from a bar. She invited me in at 3am for "coffee."

I went in and beat it rotten. Esculate. In the modern Era of false accusations instruct her what to do. Comply or bye.
 
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