"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Favorite Hoops/ Qualifiers and Which Ones to Avoid

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What hoops or qualifiers (challenge) do you use that is the most effective? What are some common hoops to avoid?

For Example:
YOU: You are kinda hot...but you could never be my girlfriend.
HER: What? Why do you say that???
YOU: I only date nice girls and you have trouble written all over you.
HER: No I am nice! Really!
YOU: Right...sure.
HER: (Trying to convince you she is nice)

(From Mr. Fingers 'THE TEN COMMANDMENTS)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tomatoes

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Yeah thats a good one.....women will cotten on to it sooner or later....

Shez is prob the best man to ask about Qualifiers.....Could prob write a list of them.
 

Distant Light

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Note: some of these I got from somewhere

DL: I don't think you can hang with me
Hb: why?/uh?/what?
DL: Your so much of a good girl your like rated pg13 I can only hang with rated R girls.
Hb: *Qualifies herself*

At this point I can set a challenge for her (ex. Go in middle of the venue and make her give you a lapdance infront of everyone)
or
set another quailifer (ex. Whats the craziest thing you ever done)

DL: Are you adventurous (is it me or does this word subtly say "are you a freak/slut")
Hb: yep/no
DL: give an IOI/ I guess I can't hang with you your to much of a good girl


DL: Can you cook? What can you cook?

But you get my point, I like to qualify her into how I want her to act and make her go into my frame that way she can be a nice classy lady or girl to the public, but when we get home...she acts like my private slut.
 
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