"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Favorite Hoops/ Qualifiers and Which Ones to Avoid

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What hoops or qualifiers (challenge) do you use that is the most effective? What are some common hoops to avoid?

For Example:
YOU: You are kinda hot...but you could never be my girlfriend.
HER: What? Why do you say that???
YOU: I only date nice girls and you have trouble written all over you.
HER: No I am nice! Really!
YOU: Right...sure.
HER: (Trying to convince you she is nice)

(From Mr. Fingers 'THE TEN COMMANDMENTS)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tomatoes

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Yeah thats a good one.....women will cotten on to it sooner or later....

Shez is prob the best man to ask about Qualifiers.....Could prob write a list of them.
 

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Note: some of these I got from somewhere

DL: I don't think you can hang with me
Hb: why?/uh?/what?
DL: Your so much of a good girl your like rated pg13 I can only hang with rated R girls.
Hb: *Qualifies herself*

At this point I can set a challenge for her (ex. Go in middle of the venue and make her give you a lapdance infront of everyone)
or
set another quailifer (ex. Whats the craziest thing you ever done)

DL: Are you adventurous (is it me or does this word subtly say "are you a freak/slut")
Hb: yep/no
DL: give an IOI/ I guess I can't hang with you your to much of a good girl


DL: Can you cook? What can you cook?

But you get my point, I like to qualify her into how I want her to act and make her go into my frame that way she can be a nice classy lady or girl to the public, but when we get home...she acts like my private slut.
 
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