"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Favorite Hoops/ Qualifiers and Which Ones to Avoid

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What hoops or qualifiers (challenge) do you use that is the most effective? What are some common hoops to avoid?

For Example:
YOU: You are kinda hot...but you could never be my girlfriend.
HER: What? Why do you say that???
YOU: I only date nice girls and you have trouble written all over you.
HER: No I am nice! Really!
YOU: Right...sure.
HER: (Trying to convince you she is nice)

(From Mr. Fingers 'THE TEN COMMANDMENTS)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tomatoes

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Yeah thats a good one.....women will cotten on to it sooner or later....

Shez is prob the best man to ask about Qualifiers.....Could prob write a list of them.
 

Distant Light

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Note: some of these I got from somewhere

DL: I don't think you can hang with me
Hb: why?/uh?/what?
DL: Your so much of a good girl your like rated pg13 I can only hang with rated R girls.
Hb: *Qualifies herself*

At this point I can set a challenge for her (ex. Go in middle of the venue and make her give you a lapdance infront of everyone)
or
set another quailifer (ex. Whats the craziest thing you ever done)

DL: Are you adventurous (is it me or does this word subtly say "are you a freak/slut")
Hb: yep/no
DL: give an IOI/ I guess I can't hang with you your to much of a good girl


DL: Can you cook? What can you cook?

But you get my point, I like to qualify her into how I want her to act and make her go into my frame that way she can be a nice classy lady or girl to the public, but when we get home...she acts like my private slut.
 
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