"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Favorite Hoops/ Qualifiers and Which Ones to Avoid

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What hoops or qualifiers (challenge) do you use that is the most effective? What are some common hoops to avoid?

For Example:
YOU: You are kinda hot...but you could never be my girlfriend.
HER: What? Why do you say that???
YOU: I only date nice girls and you have trouble written all over you.
HER: No I am nice! Really!
YOU: Right...sure.
HER: (Trying to convince you she is nice)

(From Mr. Fingers 'THE TEN COMMANDMENTS)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tomatoes

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Yeah thats a good one.....women will cotten on to it sooner or later....

Shez is prob the best man to ask about Qualifiers.....Could prob write a list of them.
 

Distant Light

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Note: some of these I got from somewhere

DL: I don't think you can hang with me
Hb: why?/uh?/what?
DL: Your so much of a good girl your like rated pg13 I can only hang with rated R girls.
Hb: *Qualifies herself*

At this point I can set a challenge for her (ex. Go in middle of the venue and make her give you a lapdance infront of everyone)
or
set another quailifer (ex. Whats the craziest thing you ever done)

DL: Are you adventurous (is it me or does this word subtly say "are you a freak/slut")
Hb: yep/no
DL: give an IOI/ I guess I can't hang with you your to much of a good girl


DL: Can you cook? What can you cook?

But you get my point, I like to qualify her into how I want her to act and make her go into my frame that way she can be a nice classy lady or girl to the public, but when we get home...she acts like my private slut.
 
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