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Favorite Hoops/ Qualifiers and Which Ones to Avoid

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What hoops or qualifiers (challenge) do you use that is the most effective? What are some common hoops to avoid?

For Example:
YOU: You are kinda hot...but you could never be my girlfriend.
HER: What? Why do you say that???
YOU: I only date nice girls and you have trouble written all over you.
HER: No I am nice! Really!
YOU: Right...sure.
HER: (Trying to convince you she is nice)

(From Mr. Fingers 'THE TEN COMMANDMENTS)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Yeah thats a good one.....women will cotten on to it sooner or later....

Shez is prob the best man to ask about Qualifiers.....Could prob write a list of them.
 

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Note: some of these I got from somewhere

DL: I don't think you can hang with me
Hb: why?/uh?/what?
DL: Your so much of a good girl your like rated pg13 I can only hang with rated R girls.
Hb: *Qualifies herself*

At this point I can set a challenge for her (ex. Go in middle of the venue and make her give you a lapdance infront of everyone)
or
set another quailifer (ex. Whats the craziest thing you ever done)

DL: Are you adventurous (is it me or does this word subtly say "are you a freak/slut")
Hb: yep/no
DL: give an IOI/ I guess I can't hang with you your to much of a good girl


DL: Can you cook? What can you cook?

But you get my point, I like to qualify her into how I want her to act and make her go into my frame that way she can be a nice classy lady or girl to the public, but when we get home...she acts like my private slut.
 
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