"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fav. soccer player?

That_Guy49

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my favorite football player right now would have to be Matt Jones from the Jaguars because I know the dude personally and he's too fast to be white(I told him that too),.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CLOONEY

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Originally posted by That_Guy49
my favorite football player right now would have to be Matt Jones from the Jaguars because I know the dude personally and he's too fast to be white(I told him that too),.
Ummmm, who are the Jaguars?

Henry, Zidane, Lucio, RD (for Brazil) easily my favourite 4 in the world.

At one stage, it was Ronaldo. Recoba was also my favourite when he went through his purple patch around and just after last WC.
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
Ummmm, who are the Jaguars?

Henry, Zidane, Lucio, RD (for Brazil) easily my favourite 4 in the world.

At one stage, it was Ronaldo. Recoba was also my favourite when he went through his purple patch around and just after last WC.
recoba has really good skills but plays well just once every three months (well, in his team, he's lucky when he PLAYS once every three months)
 

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Im really liking Freddy Adu.... I'm glad to see a good soccer player come out of the US.
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
im the soccer player in the world!.........no lie
Maybe?

BUT YOUR SURE AS HELL, NOT THE BEST SPELLER IN THE WORLD!...............NO LIE
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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