"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Praetorian
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Freddy Adu?Originally posted by thefonz
I like the 17 year kid from Chicago that's a phenom......America breeds the best althletes in the world........
By the way, america has a long way to go until they become even near the top of the soccer world
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Keane is a winner!
He don't take **** off anyone!!
personally though, i think its all about Ian rush and GAZZA!
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has anyone seen http://www.greenstreethooligans.com/ yet?
I went to see it last sunday, wicked film!! way better than football factory.
To all you americans, it will give you a better idea why you don't want to be calling football 'soccer' as frodo finds out. :crackup:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
naoi deag se deag
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Not as far as England! According to the most recent rankings, the US are 7th, ahead of Spain, Portugal, England, Italy, and Germany, among others.
USA in 2010!
My 5 year old girly-girl:
http://homepage.mac.com/ladycentaur/PhotoAlbum6.html
I'm going to have to stand guard with a shotgun over her when she gets older.
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Yeah, but how did U.S.A get there? By playing dozens of insignificant friendlies against teams such as Costa Rica, which meant they got points and went up the rankings. While just a couple of months ago a reserve England side beat the USA 2-1.Originally posted by naoi deag se deag
Not as far as England! According to the most recent rankings, the US are 7th, ahead of Spain, Portugal, England, Italy, and Germany, among others.
USA in 2010!
The FIFA rankings dont mean much, for instance Italy, not even in the top ten, even though they are one of the greatest football nations.
Getting higher in the rankings due to victories over weak teams may look good on paper, but means nothing when the players go out on to the pitch. Experience is vital.
Don't get me wrong, the U.S.A. are getting better all the time, but they have a long way to go if they are going to be able to compete regularly against teams such as Brazil, France or even teams like the Czech Republic. But if they can produce more players like Adu then you have a great chance in the future
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.