"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Father banging younger women

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This has been on my mind lately. We ended up getting into a fight about it a couple of days ago. My fathers 56, been divorced for 10 years to my mother. He cheated on her. Now I find out hes hitting girls a little bit older then me. He has more girls that are my age, then I do(actual friends). Anyone else see a bad picture here? I know I shouldn't care and he can do what he wants but now im nervous to bring girls around him. WTF it shouldn't be like that. Sorry for the rant but I want others opinions on this.

Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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:yes: Awesome !

Ask him for some tips - obviosly he knows how to do this better that you do.
Perhaps you could be his wing?
 

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jophil28 said:
:yes: Awesome !

Ask him for some tips - obviosly he knows how to do this better that you do.
Perhaps you could be his wing?
I actually laughed out loud at that. LOL Thanks for that.
Well he does have more experience then me, thats a given considering his age. I do ask time form time to time. We both have our own ways, but honestly all it really comes down to is being genuine. Its weird, its almost like a competition between us(goes father then just girls), my family is very competitive. Big Italian family. But still, it ****in weird's me out.
 

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there is potential here.

my dad and i went out a few times to clubs together... talk about a lethal combination. we play off each other well. no one believes il'm his son (he looks young), it's an instant convo starter. we've done some damage together in the past lol.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MikeBrown30 said:
Playa hating against your dad. Haha, ask him for advice, or as jophil said, you could be his wingman.
LOL Yea im playa hatin against my own dad..Its hard when its ur dad brotha..hard to get out of your mind, especially when its a girl u really like(nd since i live with my father).. Any advice how to get this insecurity out of my mind?
 

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Be lucky your dad has game. I'd study what he does and ask him for advice. I'm sure he'd be proud to see his son bang a bunch of hotties. My dad is a raging AFC who's starting to resemble a buzzard
 

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Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
 

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Stop complaining. You're lucky to have such an awesome dad.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
Nah, that would never happen(not to say she wouldn't bang a random dude) but he wouldn't **** he over like that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jitterbug said:
Stop complaining. You're lucky to have such an awesome dad.
Everyone always says that but the difference is your not on my end of the stick.
 

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This is a rare opportunity AFC guys would kill for ( a live in PUA who wont take their money LOL). Use your dad as a way to sharpen your skills. Always having someone around that keeps you on top of your game is what EVERY boy/man needs in his life.

The benefits of having a dad that has better game/looks/status than you is such a perfect motivational /inspirational tool to quickly build yourself up into the kind of man women want ! You need to be aware of what kind of situation your in and capitalize on it !!

oh and how come none of your dads girls try to hook you up with their friends ?? how much do you weigh ?? are you normal / muscular / or weak ?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
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I've said this a few times. my dad at one point.. tried to sleep with an old GF who would become my fiancee. not for one second was I ever really that mad at him.

she asked me why i wasn't mad, and i told her what you just said.. hell if you would have done it he was doing me a favor.

it's a cold ****ing world out there son. hell truth be told if i were single... you better not leave me along with my 33 year old step mom (my step mom is actually younger than my fiancee). i'd bend my step mom over a table and would not think twice about it lol. step mom or not she's pretty ****ing hot.

that's what men do. but i know that would not happen becuase my dad is on top of his game, and my fiancee is not intersted in my dad becuase i'm on top of mine.
 

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Crissco said:
Everyone always says that but the difference is your not on my end of the stick.
Quit your *****in', Nancy. Time to stop the tea party and take off that lovely, flower dress.

I've been on your side of the stick. The Sargeant would game 25 year olds when I was 25 and I learned from him, not hated against him.

Why is it creepy?

When you hit his age, you'd want to do the same thing. He gets more girls than you do, how is that a bad thing?

As long as he's not stealing YOUR women, I don't see what the problem is.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crissco...

Id be very happy to be in your shoes. Theres nothing better to have that kind of wingman in your arsenal.

If he bangs the girl ur with then problem solved. Next. And then joke about it over some scotch.

If my dad were still a DJ (he was back in the day big time) I would be hanging with him twice a week. Far superior then my other wings at the moment.
 

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I don't see what the problem is here.

By the way, first the OP says he's nervous to bring girls around his dad, then say that he wouldn't make a move on one of his girls. So which is it?

Anyway, like others have said, be glad you have a cool dad and you can learn from him. Remember, you're a chip off the old block.
 

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backbreaker said:
hell truth be told if i were single... you better not leave me along with my 33 year old step mom (my step mom is actually younger than my fiancee). i'd bend my step mom over a table and would not think twice about it lol. step mom or not she's pretty ****ing hot.

lmao :D
 

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I'm surprised it's you that's hating and not some random chick. Your dad must have some serious game to land younger hotties at that age. Take advantage of the situation and let the haters and the manginas do the hating.
 

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Crissco said:
This has been on my mind lately. We ended up getting into a fight about it a couple of days ago. My fathers 56, been divorced for 10 years to my mother. He cheated on her. Now I find out hes hitting girls a little bit older then me. He has more girls that are my age, then I do(actual friends). Anyone else see a bad picture here? I know I shouldn't care and he can do what he wants but now im nervous to bring girls around him. WTF it shouldn't be like that. Sorry for the rant but I want others opinions on this.

Thanks
What is eating away at you, is not the fact that he's hitting on girls your age, but the fact that your father cheated on your mother. This is human nature for you to feel that way.

That's why I find it so funny when amoralist guys say: 'Oh it's cool for say Tiger, or a rich powerful man to get a little on the side.'

But when you find out it is YOUR Dad who is getting a little on the side, it pisses you off.

To the OP: the bottom line is this, you are a man, and it is your nature such that you simply CANNOT respect your father because he cheated on your mom.

Game recognizes game. And in this case, a real man can recognize other real men when he sees it. Unfortunately, your father is not a real man, that's why you cannot respect him.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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