"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Father banging younger women

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This has been on my mind lately. We ended up getting into a fight about it a couple of days ago. My fathers 56, been divorced for 10 years to my mother. He cheated on her. Now I find out hes hitting girls a little bit older then me. He has more girls that are my age, then I do(actual friends). Anyone else see a bad picture here? I know I shouldn't care and he can do what he wants but now im nervous to bring girls around him. WTF it shouldn't be like that. Sorry for the rant but I want others opinions on this.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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:yes: Awesome !

Ask him for some tips - obviosly he knows how to do this better that you do.
Perhaps you could be his wing?
 

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jophil28 said:
:yes: Awesome !

Ask him for some tips - obviosly he knows how to do this better that you do.
Perhaps you could be his wing?
I actually laughed out loud at that. LOL Thanks for that.
Well he does have more experience then me, thats a given considering his age. I do ask time form time to time. We both have our own ways, but honestly all it really comes down to is being genuine. Its weird, its almost like a competition between us(goes father then just girls), my family is very competitive. Big Italian family. But still, it ****in weird's me out.
 

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there is potential here.

my dad and i went out a few times to clubs together... talk about a lethal combination. we play off each other well. no one believes il'm his son (he looks young), it's an instant convo starter. we've done some damage together in the past lol.
 

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MikeBrown30 said:
Playa hating against your dad. Haha, ask him for advice, or as jophil said, you could be his wingman.
LOL Yea im playa hatin against my own dad..Its hard when its ur dad brotha..hard to get out of your mind, especially when its a girl u really like(nd since i live with my father).. Any advice how to get this insecurity out of my mind?
 

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Be lucky your dad has game. I'd study what he does and ask him for advice. I'm sure he'd be proud to see his son bang a bunch of hotties. My dad is a raging AFC who's starting to resemble a buzzard
 

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Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
 

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Stop complaining. You're lucky to have such an awesome dad.
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
Nah, that would never happen(not to say she wouldn't bang a random dude) but he wouldn't **** he over like that.
 

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Jitterbug said:
Stop complaining. You're lucky to have such an awesome dad.
Everyone always says that but the difference is your not on my end of the stick.
 

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This is a rare opportunity AFC guys would kill for ( a live in PUA who wont take their money LOL). Use your dad as a way to sharpen your skills. Always having someone around that keeps you on top of your game is what EVERY boy/man needs in his life.

The benefits of having a dad that has better game/looks/status than you is such a perfect motivational /inspirational tool to quickly build yourself up into the kind of man women want ! You need to be aware of what kind of situation your in and capitalize on it !!

oh and how come none of your dads girls try to hook you up with their friends ?? how much do you weigh ?? are you normal / muscular / or weak ?
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
Trust me, if your dad ends up banging a chick you're seeing you can thank him for showing you what a low class ho she is.
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I've said this a few times. my dad at one point.. tried to sleep with an old GF who would become my fiancee. not for one second was I ever really that mad at him.

she asked me why i wasn't mad, and i told her what you just said.. hell if you would have done it he was doing me a favor.

it's a cold ****ing world out there son. hell truth be told if i were single... you better not leave me along with my 33 year old step mom (my step mom is actually younger than my fiancee). i'd bend my step mom over a table and would not think twice about it lol. step mom or not she's pretty ****ing hot.

that's what men do. but i know that would not happen becuase my dad is on top of his game, and my fiancee is not intersted in my dad becuase i'm on top of mine.
 

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Crissco said:
Everyone always says that but the difference is your not on my end of the stick.
Quit your *****in', Nancy. Time to stop the tea party and take off that lovely, flower dress.

I've been on your side of the stick. The Sargeant would game 25 year olds when I was 25 and I learned from him, not hated against him.

Why is it creepy?

When you hit his age, you'd want to do the same thing. He gets more girls than you do, how is that a bad thing?

As long as he's not stealing YOUR women, I don't see what the problem is.
 

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Crissco...

Id be very happy to be in your shoes. Theres nothing better to have that kind of wingman in your arsenal.

If he bangs the girl ur with then problem solved. Next. And then joke about it over some scotch.

If my dad were still a DJ (he was back in the day big time) I would be hanging with him twice a week. Far superior then my other wings at the moment.
 

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I don't see what the problem is here.

By the way, first the OP says he's nervous to bring girls around his dad, then say that he wouldn't make a move on one of his girls. So which is it?

Anyway, like others have said, be glad you have a cool dad and you can learn from him. Remember, you're a chip off the old block.
 

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backbreaker said:
hell truth be told if i were single... you better not leave me along with my 33 year old step mom (my step mom is actually younger than my fiancee). i'd bend my step mom over a table and would not think twice about it lol. step mom or not she's pretty ****ing hot.

lmao :D
 

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I'm surprised it's you that's hating and not some random chick. Your dad must have some serious game to land younger hotties at that age. Take advantage of the situation and let the haters and the manginas do the hating.
 

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Crissco said:
This has been on my mind lately. We ended up getting into a fight about it a couple of days ago. My fathers 56, been divorced for 10 years to my mother. He cheated on her. Now I find out hes hitting girls a little bit older then me. He has more girls that are my age, then I do(actual friends). Anyone else see a bad picture here? I know I shouldn't care and he can do what he wants but now im nervous to bring girls around him. WTF it shouldn't be like that. Sorry for the rant but I want others opinions on this.

Thanks
What is eating away at you, is not the fact that he's hitting on girls your age, but the fact that your father cheated on your mother. This is human nature for you to feel that way.

That's why I find it so funny when amoralist guys say: 'Oh it's cool for say Tiger, or a rich powerful man to get a little on the side.'

But when you find out it is YOUR Dad who is getting a little on the side, it pisses you off.

To the OP: the bottom line is this, you are a man, and it is your nature such that you simply CANNOT respect your father because he cheated on your mom.

Game recognizes game. And in this case, a real man can recognize other real men when he sees it. Unfortunately, your father is not a real man, that's why you cannot respect him.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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