"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this fat guy at work was telling me that you could look like the rock or hulk hogan by just eating lots of carbs and working out several times a day. when i told him those guys were on tons of juice, he didnt believe me at all and said those physiques could easily be achieved naturally. now what i dont understand is, if you really believed you could look like the rock or hulk hogan by just eating carbs and working out more, why the fck wouldnt you be hitting the gym like your life depended on it ??? i see this type of logic a lot from out of shape people, they will say something along the lines of " oh im not interested in weight lifting because i dont want to get too big and bulky or i dont want to look like a bodybuilder etc.." and i always wonder why they hell they arent hitting the gym if they really believe they could get those type of insane results naturally in a very short period of time.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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this fat guy at work was telling me that you could look like the rock or hulk hogan by just eating lots of carbs and working out several times a day. when i told him those guys were on tons of juice, he didnt believe me at all and said those physiques could easily be achieved naturally. now what i dont understand is, if you really believed you could look like the rock or hulk hogan by just eating carbs and working out more, why the fck wouldnt you be hitting the gym like your life depended on it ??? i see this type of logic a lot from out of shape people, they will say something along the lines of " oh im not interested in weight lifting because i dont want to get too big and bulky or i dont want to look like a bodybuilder etc.." and i always wonder why they hell they arent hitting the gym if they really believe they could get those type of insane results naturally in a very short period of time.
Simple. It's easier to be fat and do nothing. Path of least resistance.
 

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Hes kind of right. You can get those gains doing 2 a days everyday with a strict diet.
If you have the genetics.
But very few people in this 40-50 hr work week + other responsibility america has that kind of time, and if they do have the time, the discipline to work out HARD 2x a day 6 days a week, and get 10+ hrs of sleep and enough macronutrienrs to recover daily..
 
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