"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fat Girls?

VladPatton

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There's a cover for every pot. Somewhere there's a dude banging a retarded chick. All females have the power to get deek.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CrimsonPanther

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fat girls are not attractive. also, zero-fat girls are not attractive. there are a few in the gym i am frequenting, who are like mini-Schwarzenegger's, with pectoral muscles instead of boobies. NOT attractive. also their veins are showing.
a little fat is needed. just not overweight.

ugly:
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ima...the-week-genuine-smile-beautiful-body_asm.jpg
ugly:
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-Sd1Obiq4v...yI/-myKAJRmNsw/s1600/taralynnwhalemermaid.jpg

sexy:
http://media.indiatimes.in/media/content/2012/Mar/1_1332898561_1332898570_640x640.jpg

also i don't get this new propaganda / worldwide spam about promoting fat women's sexiness. they all say, "ALL women are beautiful" while they are choosey as heck when picking males.
when women will find fat guys attractive and sexy, i will find fat women attractive and sexy. aka never.
 

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to each his own, im athletic and usually go for athletic girls. i hate the plain janes that dont have any interesting hobby but watching movies day in , day out.

i want a broad who likes surfing, para gliding , snowboarding ,all the stuff that i like to do. i fvcking hate "couch girls" whose hobby is stalking other faggots on fagbook. it happens that the athletic girls usually have the traits that i like.

ofc i dont like the ones with pecs lol,thats just disgusting, i love my "human pillows" aka D-cups :D i meant someone like a crossfit chick.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So many problems would self-correct if food was much harder to get.
 

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Zarky said:
Rationalization is a sad thing to behold, BB :(
I always find it amusing when chubby chasers use "big boobs" as their official excuse. Who do they think they're fooling?
 

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switch said:
i want a broad who likes surfing, para gliding , snowboarding ,all the stuff that i like to do. i fvcking hate "couch girls" whose hobby is stalking other faggots on fagbook. it happens that the athletic girls usually have the traits that i like.
Surfing, para-gliding and snowboarding do not make girls look like Iggy Pop. Lifting too much weight does. There's difference between being fit and being ripped and girls definitely do NOT benefit from crossing that line.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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