Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
It was like 3 or 4 years ago so I don't really remember. It was a mix of people of all ages. It was like 75% men and 25% women. The woman ranged from ugly to hot. The woman I met was in her mid 40's and average in looks I guess she was kind of attractive.DonJuan11 said:
Actually the best way is to go hiking in the hills that deer live in. Careful though, they're man eatersNew2Town said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
if i could i would give you aldaris reps. i can't though. this is what i call a ****ing class aaa+ post! i don't even have to read anything. in less than 30 seconds you make your point. you think these hors are going to come to your door before bed and say, "kyle, lets bang before you get some rest." hell no! you gotta be the one who goes to their doors and ask them if they wanna play with your love muscle! don't just sit there stroking your chest while guys like myself and djdamage leave the female populations in your town sore and aching.DJDamage said:
The problem with that line is that if she agrees, you have to follow through and go l!ck her pu@@y.aldaris said:
my point is to not let a hor scare you. 99% of the pussies on here let the hor rule over them. and on the 5th evening god made the hor so that man could have something to do in between watching sports on television and work.My Name is Nobody said:
aldaris said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
i tried that line with a random lady who works at a coffee joint. she didn't really get it, but the guy behind her sure did. i ended up with his number. so i think you need to avoid men when you dish that one out.My Name is Nobody said: