"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do u say to a girl who says stuff like

"Can you throw this out for me?"
"Can you tie my shoe?"
"Can you get that for me?"
"Can you do this, that, etc"

What is your respone to these sort of questions?

Also, when do u simply just throw something out or whatever?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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illmatic1005 said:
What do u say to a girl who says stuff like

"Can you throw this out for me?"
"Can you tie my shoe?"
"Can you get that for me?"
"Can you do this, that, etc"

What is your respone to these sort of questions?

Also, when do u simply just throw something out or whatever?
just flat out laugh at her like she just said the most pathetic thing in the world and then say "yeah right. You're not just cute your also funny. You should have your own stand up comedy TV show!"
 

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illmatic1005 said:
What do u say to a girl who says stuff like

"Can you throw this out for me?"
"Can you tie my shoe?"
"Can you get that for me?"
"Can you do this, that, etc"

What is your respone to these sort of questions?

Also, when do u simply just throw something out or whatever?

There's this magic word that eludes all the AFCs and it's called...... NO

Throw your own dam sh1t out.
Tie your own dam shoe.
Get it yourself.
Do it yourself.
 

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Depending on what it is, I say "Sure but you owe me." and do a bl0wjob motion.
 

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I could, but I'm not going to. Do I LOOK like Alfred?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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depends i will hold the door for someone and that kinda thing, but to tie someone's shoe, highly doubt it. I would prolly sneer/smirk and be like "fvck outta my face" make sure you snarl menecingly
 

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It depends on what she is asking, who she is, how long I've known her, etc.

Always try and be C&F about it though, that is, if you are into the girl.

A personal favorite in these kind of scenarios is play the "what's-in-it-for-me" card, and I'll ask for a shoulder rub/massage in return for throwing out whatever. This is doubly awesome, 'cause if she agrees, A) you get a massage, and B) whether or not she is good, you can say something like "Damn that was pretty good... so good in fact that I've got to return the favor. Then you give her a massage -- instant kino.
 

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If there's a genuine reason for her to ask for something (such as she has no arms and cant tie laces) then that's alright. Often though (such as the girls with arms) they only ask to see if they can get away with it.

Like the guys above said, i'd usually just laugh and say no as if she's just being pathetic.
 

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NO! or sure whats in it for me?....."blah blah it would just be nice"......then no
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah...it depends on what she's asking but are you and this girl bf/gf?
It sounds like your're some kind of AFC that she has to ask to do this and that for her and is just using you...

But really if she asks you to do repetitive stupid things you should say NO! Plain and simple....
Whether you say whats in it for me, you owe me one, or how about you do it you've got hands and feet....if she keeps asking you to go out of your way for her and do stuff she's using you/testing you...
 

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illmatic1005 said:
What do u say to a girl who says stuff like

"Can you throw this out for me?"
"Can you tie my shoe?"
"Can you get that for me?"
"Can you do this, that, etc"

What is your respone to these sort of questions?

Also, when do u simply just throw something out or whatever?
Currently, I try to do whatever is most unexpected and funny.

This woman (actually, my future (and now ex) date) started whining about how I owed her a chick flick.

Actually, my deal at the time was that if a woman saw two of my movies, and she hated them, I would go to a "chick flick" - fair is fair.

So I get two girls (one being a future dating relationship) to promise to go to one of my movies.

My (soon to be) date cancels out last minute because she's "shopping" so I go with this other girl.

Then a week later, (dating) girl starts whining about how I owe her a chick flick because... I looked at her and said:

EXCUSE ME? I DON'T OWE YOU A DAMN THING. ::laughing::

:Whine:

"DID YOU GO TO THE MOVIE? NO? So I owe YOU nothing." :still laughing:

Made the second chick laugh and I think she did a spit take. Best reaction I've seen in a while.

I kept doing that with her. Then, she asked if I wuld rub her feet. I looked like I was going to yell at her, then went "Ok" and did it for 5 seconds.

"That'll be 2.00."

I started thinking it was the wrong way to handle that situation, as I did end up rubbing her feet for like 5 seconds, which is what she wanted. Yeah, I "supplicated."

But it was more in that it was damned funny because it was unexpected. Part of me wishes I had thought of something funnier, but... oh well, you live and learn.
 
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