"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fast money?
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
How much cash, and how soon? What are you qualified to do? How old are you?
Too vague of a question.
i'm still in college so i'm not qualified to do much. but doing porn would really fvck with my relationship lol
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
If your state allows it, try and work at the pubs/bars located on or near the campus.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Or get a job as a waiter.
Or both.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
6-heads lewis
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Selling sperm is not as quick and profitable as you may think.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
If you goto a private school, religious type, be extremely careful.
Places like IV are safe, but on campus its 2x bad.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
So, here are a few legal options:
Male dancing (private events or at a bar/club - be this frequented by older women, or if you're really in need of money, men).
Selling plasma (this is the route taken by many inner-city people in need of quick money, as evidenced by the overabundance of these sorts of facilities in lower-income areas)
Medical studies (such as the Pennington Biomedical Research Center... These sorts of things are OK, if you have one near your area, but otherwise you're out of luck)
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Ha ha ha.Bible_Belt said:
meitenesrigas
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Go gay. Tons of supposedly "straight" boys are doing it for the lifestyle and cash. Car, cash, trips, clothes, etc. It is one of the few things that you can do that is legal in America these days. At your age you can't drink (without breaking the law) in the USA, but you can get some guy's d*** and tongue shoved up your a-hole. Ain't freedom lovely? :cheer:X-ecution said:
I have 3 classes and I go to school Monday to Friday but I work full time at night and I sleep in the day. I get to study at night for a little but so it's cool. Actually a lot so I'm probably getting all As if I keep at it and more importantly I'm making money. hehe!~
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.