"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fashion, what a joke.

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OK, I'm not against fashion per se. My beef is with these young women who follow the stupid fashions.

The one that ticks me off is the scarf trend that is going around this year. I have seen so many young women wearing scarfs and looking like complete idiots.

Why why why do women do that. I think it looks stupid. Do they do it just because some gay guys in New York decided it would look great.

Last year it was the large sunglasses. they also looked stupid to me. But I saw them all over town.

I just think, man what is wrong with women. Why do they follow these trends?

Do any of you other guys look at these things and think the same thing as me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I don't put too much thought into it. What they wear is their choice. Does it affect my life? Nah, screw it, whatever.

Do I have opinions about some stuff? Hell yeah, but I take it with a grain of salt.

I think what is more irksome to me is the sheep mentality which both genders fall prey to when it comes to fashion trends.

Personally, I really don't like untucked striped button up shirts, trucker caps and flip flops. Disgusting ;) But that's just me.

I do like the layered look chicks use now...works great when they have curvy hips and not too much flab around the belly.
 

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Yeah I try not to worry about what she's wearing since its her choice, but I've had the exact same thoughts myself before.

It is insanely stupid how some gay guys in some 'fashion capital' decide what's 'in' now and that's all it takes. What's worse is the in thing is often actually ugly, for example as you mentioned the huge sunglasses.

If they aren't ugly, then its just funny to listen to how brainwashed some girls are. I've always heard that socks and sandels is just about the ugliest thing somebody can wear. But then not too long ago (might have been this spring/summer) somebody said that it was in this season, and I had a great time trying to get those girls to explain why they now like what they have been saying is ugly for years. They couldn't.

Occasionally there are good trends that actually do look great on people, but sadly most of them are completely stupid, ugly, and pointless.

Personally I'm more of a timeless guy. IMO no matter what the fashion, a simple shirt will always look good on a guy or girl IF it fits well and they have a good body.
 

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SmoothTalker said:
Occasionally there are good trends that actually do look great on people, but sadly most of them are completely stupid, ugly, and pointless.
Thanks SmoothTalker, you clarified exactly what I was trying to get across in my post.

When I was using the word stupid in my first post I actually meant to say ugly.

As a man of 45, I can't help looking at a lot of the fashion trends as a complete waste of time. If it looks good, wear it. If you put on a large pair of sunglasses and they look stupid on your face then don't wear them. How much simpler can it be.

I guess in 10 or 20 years these women will look back at photos they took and realize how ugly those sunglasses really were.
 

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It's not that simple. Current trends are largely based on what happened before them... they work for the moment but may not work later on.

I remember back in the mid 80's I used to think girls looked so hot in their neon leggings and whatnot, and laughed at how "ugly" the outfits were in the 1970's. But now, man... geez... that 80's stuff looks ridiculous.

I agree with ya on the huge glasses, though. I also hate those big fuzzy boots that look like something eskimos would wear.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The scarf looks like what they put on little puppies. Where did people get the idea that it was attractive to dress a puppy up?

But, don't be afraid. Just like a nice guy, trends are disposable. In one year, out the next. Or in the nice guys case, a lot faster!!!

Oh ya, how about shutter shades? WOW! What a pathetic idea.
 

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Fashion is trendy...like anything else. I agree that an oversized scarf in 80 degree weather looks pretty ridiculous. I saw that and multicolored hoodies sported all over Seattle this summer. I like my LRG, 10 Deep, and Crooks n Castles hoodies too - But in 80 degree summer weather?

Just be glad you're not one of those guys who went with the tribal armband tattoo trend. Or the gauged earrings trend. Now that the gauged earring trend is gone, droopy earlobes look pretty nasty.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Lol funny you should mention the droopy earlobes. I know a few guys and girls that did that when it was cool in high school. It looks stupid now, and short of surgery I don't think they can do anything about it. The lucky ones never went big enough that it couldn't be hidden with an earring.
 

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IF I think it looks good on the woman I aint complainin.... if It doesnt look good on her chances are im not talking to that chick so I could really careless




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your goal is to get them naked anyway.
 

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Same reason women wear makeup and get breasts implants. They think us guys like it and they think it makes them look better, when in actuality we hate it and it can make a good looking girl look ugly as f*ck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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