"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fashion: identify this jumper jacket

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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anonymous12345

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Looks very feminine and metrosexual. Won't help with getting pus.
Ok. I have follow up questions:
  1. What are examples of jackets that aren't feminine/metro?
  2. I'm considering wearing square diamond earrings. I have an inclination for it, so I will be comfortable with it; Beckham and Ronaldo wears it and I guess they're considered sex symbols. I think it's a hip hop thing too. What is your general take on such earrings?
  3. Such earrings combined with a jacket of that kind would be too much or tricky, I'd say. What jacket would you combine with such earrings, that according to you don't look feminine?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok. I have follow up questions:
  1. What are examples of jackets that aren't feminine/metro?
  2. I'm considering wearing square diamond earrings. I have an inclination for it, so I will be comfortable with it; Beckham and Ronaldo wears it and I guess they're considered sex symbols. I think it's a hip hop thing too. What is your general take on such earrings?
  3. Such earrings combined with a jacket of that kind would be too much or tricky, I'd say. What jacket would you combine with such earrings, that according to you don't look feminine?
What look are you trying to go after? If you are a celebrity, such as Ronaldo or Beckham, then you can have your own style. If you're a regular dude and you dress like that; prob. not going to attract the females. They have instant credibility since they are professional athletes. Dressing like Michael Jackson w. earrings will probably bring you attention; just not the attention you are looking for. Are you looking for girls as friends? Or are you looking to have sex with these girls?
 

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Check out this jacket:

I'm interested in the same model or similar. Any tips for it or close by brands are appreciated. I'm somewhat familiar with usual Swedish brands/sites.

Just realised I have no male friends interested in fashion -- a problem. I like clothes, but not browsing for hours.
Leather jackets are sex symbols and synonyms of "bad boys". However, they are not all created equal, and not all wear it with the appeal it requires.

This, my friend, is not a good example of this. A white leather jacket worn like that reminds me of MJ in the good ol' days. And not in a good way.

Sorry, I can't help you find this feminine jacket.



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You can find a range of accessories that will work well with a black leather jacket. Consider adding a statement scarf, colorful beanie, fashionable hat, or bold jewelry to complete your look. If you want to keep it simple, try accessorizing with a timeless pair of sunglasses or stylish belt.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I do believe there should be a separate section for men style , fashion and care products. Highly underrated aspect of being a DJ. With the right style any man can up his SMV some points. Just a suggestion for the mods. A mega thread or a section dedicated to style and products.

OP whenever you send an example people tend to compare, or associate you with the picture . This dude wears a jacket that isnt too bad, but;
you MUST have developed big shoulders.
Jackets like these tend to be small.
That shirt under his jacket is atrocious.
White is a shyte color for any jacket.

Generally speaking leather jackets are a bytche . You dont wanna be too greedy when purchasing a leather jacket, imo the higher end brands are simply better fitting. Go to a established store that sells them, try a LOT and dont be scared to spend some money on it ( so the seller can rather help with expert advice, instead of having you feeling like they try to sell you something. )
 
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