"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fashion: identify this jumper jacket

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looks very feminine and metrosexual. Won't help with getting pus.
Ok. I have follow up questions:
  1. What are examples of jackets that aren't feminine/metro?
  2. I'm considering wearing square diamond earrings. I have an inclination for it, so I will be comfortable with it; Beckham and Ronaldo wears it and I guess they're considered sex symbols. I think it's a hip hop thing too. What is your general take on such earrings?
  3. Such earrings combined with a jacket of that kind would be too much or tricky, I'd say. What jacket would you combine with such earrings, that according to you don't look feminine?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok. I have follow up questions:
  1. What are examples of jackets that aren't feminine/metro?
  2. I'm considering wearing square diamond earrings. I have an inclination for it, so I will be comfortable with it; Beckham and Ronaldo wears it and I guess they're considered sex symbols. I think it's a hip hop thing too. What is your general take on such earrings?
  3. Such earrings combined with a jacket of that kind would be too much or tricky, I'd say. What jacket would you combine with such earrings, that according to you don't look feminine?
What look are you trying to go after? If you are a celebrity, such as Ronaldo or Beckham, then you can have your own style. If you're a regular dude and you dress like that; prob. not going to attract the females. They have instant credibility since they are professional athletes. Dressing like Michael Jackson w. earrings will probably bring you attention; just not the attention you are looking for. Are you looking for girls as friends? Or are you looking to have sex with these girls?
 

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Check out this jacket:

I'm interested in the same model or similar. Any tips for it or close by brands are appreciated. I'm somewhat familiar with usual Swedish brands/sites.

Just realised I have no male friends interested in fashion -- a problem. I like clothes, but not browsing for hours.
Leather jackets are sex symbols and synonyms of "bad boys". However, they are not all created equal, and not all wear it with the appeal it requires.

This, my friend, is not a good example of this. A white leather jacket worn like that reminds me of MJ in the good ol' days. And not in a good way.

Sorry, I can't help you find this feminine jacket.



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You can find a range of accessories that will work well with a black leather jacket. Consider adding a statement scarf, colorful beanie, fashionable hat, or bold jewelry to complete your look. If you want to keep it simple, try accessorizing with a timeless pair of sunglasses or stylish belt.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do believe there should be a separate section for men style , fashion and care products. Highly underrated aspect of being a DJ. With the right style any man can up his SMV some points. Just a suggestion for the mods. A mega thread or a section dedicated to style and products.

OP whenever you send an example people tend to compare, or associate you with the picture . This dude wears a jacket that isnt too bad, but;
you MUST have developed big shoulders.
Jackets like these tend to be small.
That shirt under his jacket is atrocious.
White is a shyte color for any jacket.

Generally speaking leather jackets are a bytche . You dont wanna be too greedy when purchasing a leather jacket, imo the higher end brands are simply better fitting. Go to a established store that sells them, try a LOT and dont be scared to spend some money on it ( so the seller can rather help with expert advice, instead of having you feeling like they try to sell you something. )
 
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