"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fashion: fit or casual T-shirt?

anonymous12345

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I try to care about the size of my new white T-shirts, heh. Either rather well-fit/tight or more casual. In either case it’s a slim fit, I got athletic build.

In my world it’s fvck boy on one extreme, and unnoticeable casual on the other. I’m currently leaning towards the former: rather make an impression than being ordinary like others. So, rather sexy and a slight attitude. On the other hand it can come across as a try-hard, sleazy, the frat boy.

In any case, it’s not that big deal, but the devil is in the detail, as we know. How do people reason about these things?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SW15

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In my world it’s fvck boy on one extreme, and unnoticeable casual on the other. I’m currently leaning towards the former: rather make an impression than being ordinary like others. So, rather sexy and a slight attitude. On the other hand it can come across as a try-hard, sleazy, the frat boy.
Be a fucck boy. You'd rather be associated with being a try-hard, sleazy, frat boy than a run of the mill, unspectacular beta male.
 

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I was teen during the 90's when loose and baggy was very in. Looking back at some of the pics I have I lol. I only wear looser shirts/pants when I work out because its comfortable. The rest of the time my clothes is more fitted, even tshirts. You honestly look better.

To each their own though
 

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I was teen during the 90's when loose and baggy was very in.
Loose is very in at the moment. I own a loose black hoodie that I wear very often and gets me approached by very attractive girls. That being said my 2nd favorite top, is a tight fit, tee from psycho bunny that accomplishes the same. So basically wear whatever, when you look yourself in the mirror think, "goddamnnn I look good"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In my world it’s fvck boy on one extreme, and unnoticeable casual on the other.
The nice thing about casual is that it doesn't seem try hard. But as you say, it doesn't make you noticeable either. If you can make an impact with your personality, I guess that doesn't matter.
 
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