"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Farmers Insurance Agent: How Exactly does this Work?

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www.farmersinsuranceagent.com

After posting my resume on monster.com, I received an email from this company explaining an opening as an Insurance agent. How exactly does this company operate?

I'm looking to get a sales job, but have no prior experience to speak of.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I tried this once. They told me I had to take classes, and pay for them, and first I had to start out by talking to random people on the street trying to give them insurance quotes based on the info they gave me.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You have to telemarket, knock doors, or find another way to bring in business. It's a tough job.

For a guy who wants to try a sales job this summer (with little exp.), what would you suggest?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's tough starting from scratch. Some people are better in person, and others are better over the phone. If you have a clean-cut "nice young man" appearance, in-person sales might work better. If you are tattooed and pierced, the phone might be better, unless you are selling to other tatooed and pierced people.

Probably the most important part of a sales job is believing that your product is a good deal for people. You have to sell it to yourself first, then your emotion is contagious. The second most important part is working with successful people. I worked with one group of guys who were so good at their job, that I could barely keep up with them. I only considered myself average. But later I learned that we were the top distributor in the seven state division, and my own sales numbers that were only average within my office were within the top 2% of all salespeople in the division. Much like unsuccessful people drag you down, very successful people will drag you up.
 
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