"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Farewell (sort of)

Poon King

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Between working, spinning plates and focusing on my individual life goals, I rarely have time to visit this place anymore. On top of that, I have pretty much said everything regarding what men need to know about women. Its pretty simple:
  • Women care ONLY about what you can do for them
  • NEVER care more about the relationship than the woman does
  • Your job is to get laid, HER job is to "bond" emotionally
  • Women will NOT bring you happiness
  • Be the best man you can be for YOUR sake
  • Live by YOUR rules and values 24/7, not women's
  • Don't be a pathetic, desperate, beta b!tch
  • Stop kissing female ass
  • Don't be a white knight
I am not necessarily leaving SoSuave. I just won't be here very often. But I'll still pop in occasionally to give advice.

Stay strong men. And stay awake.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Berom

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Ever since I joined I've always saw you as the most no-nonsense member. It's been great reading your posts.
 

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Thank you for all of your contribution to SS, and come back as often as you can.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Peace out man. Everyone's gotta leave this place sooner or later at some point. Perhaps your time is now. Or [relatively] soon.
 

Sprayarc

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Always solid, concise and l and rational advice. Thanks a lot for your contributions.
 

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Miss you PK! Thanks for the advice both personal and more widespread you have offered.
 

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Between working, spinning plates and focusing on my individual life goals, I rarely have time to visit this place anymore. On top of that, I have pretty much said everything regarding what men need to know about women. Its pretty simple:
  • Women care ONLY about what you can do for them
  • NEVER care more about the relationship than the woman does
  • Your job is to get laid, HER job is to "bond" emotionally
  • Women will NOT bring you happiness
  • Be the best man you can be for YOUR sake
  • Live by YOUR rules and values 24/7, not women's
  • Don't be a pathetic, desperate, beta b!tch
  • Stop kissing female ass
  • Don't be a white knight
I am not necessarily leaving SoSuave. I just won't be here very often. But I'll still pop in occasionally to give advice.

Stay strong men. And stay awake.
Poon King,

If you are still reading this, I'm wondering can you put together a "Book of Poon King" similar to the Book of Pook? OR, do you mind if I do it :)?

The way you think is the way I think, it's always great to find somebody else in this universe that fully understands that this market of women is NOT the same as it was pre-women's liberation and pre-feminism, and how gynocentrism and feminism have totally destroyed the dating relations.

I just had to let one of my plates go tonight. I got tired of the damn chick trying to control the fvck out of me. She wasn't even cute to me to be honest, she just had a very nice A.SS and some good pvssy lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Poon King

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Poon King,

If you are still reading this, I'm wondering can you put together a "Book of Poon King" similar to the Book of Pook? OR, do you mind if I do it :)?

The way you think is the way I think, it's always great to find somebody else in this universe that fully understands that this market of women is NOT the same as it was pre-women's liberation and pre-feminism, and how gynocentrism and feminism have totally destroyed the dating relations.

I just had to let one of my plates go tonight. I got tired of the damn chick trying to control the fvck out of me. She wasn't even cute to me to be honest, she just had a very nice A.SS and some good pvssy lol.
I don't have the time to put a book together, but you can use my posts to create a book if you like.

And I agree with you. Most men treat 2016 women like the women of 1950.. then wonder why they fail and get walked on. Its a different game and men need to wake up.
 

dustmuffin

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I don't have the time to put a book together, but you can use my posts to create a book if you like.

And I agree with you. Most men treat 2016 women like the women of 1950.. then wonder why they fail and get walked on. Its a different game and men need to wake up.
That is the most pertinent thought I have read on here in a while. Treat women like trash and they will love you...Treat them like gold and they will leave you......
 

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I wanted to bump this thread. I'm pretty busy right now but I wanted to let Poon King know that I'm looking at putting together a "Book of Poon King", which is sort of a way of competing with the "Book of Pook". I think Pook made a lot of great observations but I think Poon King's analysis and judgment is more IN LINE with the current state of market affairs.

Hopefully it can get in the DJ Bible alongside the Book of Pook. To me the Book of Pook was like the summary of all there is to be a Don Juan, the Book of Poon King would be more of a summary of what it is to be a MGTOW.

I honestly believe being MGTOW is the solution to today's market situation, rather than being a Don Juan. You can be a MGTOW and still get laid, I'm not sure why some people believe that going MGTOW means you aren't looking to still lay women.
 

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"Live by YOUR rules and values" I only read one post of this guy and I already like this guy... Not one of the sheep, sounds like a man who manifests his own destiny.
 

Speculator E

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I wanted to bump this thread. I'm pretty busy right now but I wanted to let Poon King know that I'm looking at putting together a "Book of Poon King", which is sort of a way of competing with the "Book of Pook". I think Pook made a lot of great observations but I think Poon King's analysis and judgment is more IN LINE with the current state of market affairs.

Hopefully it can get in the DJ Bible alongside the Book of Pook. To me the Book of Pook was like the summary of all there is to be a Don Juan, the Book of Poon King would be more of a summary of what it is to be a MGTOW.

I honestly believe being MGTOW is the solution to today's market situation, rather than being a Don Juan. You can be a MGTOW and still get laid, I'm not sure why some people believe that going MGTOW means you aren't looking to still lay women.
Great Idea. Would like to see it when it's done. Poon King was a few other names I think but don't remember.
"Live by YOUR rules and values" I only read one post of this guy and I already like this guy... Not one of the sheep, sounds like a man who manifests his own destiny.
Great Idea. Would love to see it when it comes out. Poon King was crazy but told the truth as it is. He was also a few other names too. Kept on getting banned because he hurted a lot of AFC feelings.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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