"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Farewell (sort of)

Poon King

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Between working, spinning plates and focusing on my individual life goals, I rarely have time to visit this place anymore. On top of that, I have pretty much said everything regarding what men need to know about women. Its pretty simple:
  • Women care ONLY about what you can do for them
  • NEVER care more about the relationship than the woman does
  • Your job is to get laid, HER job is to "bond" emotionally
  • Women will NOT bring you happiness
  • Be the best man you can be for YOUR sake
  • Live by YOUR rules and values 24/7, not women's
  • Don't be a pathetic, desperate, beta b!tch
  • Stop kissing female ass
  • Don't be a white knight
I am not necessarily leaving SoSuave. I just won't be here very often. But I'll still pop in occasionally to give advice.

Stay strong men. And stay awake.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ever since I joined I've always saw you as the most no-nonsense member. It's been great reading your posts.
 

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Thank you for all of your contribution to SS, and come back as often as you can.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Peace out man. Everyone's gotta leave this place sooner or later at some point. Perhaps your time is now. Or [relatively] soon.
 

Sprayarc

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Always solid, concise and l and rational advice. Thanks a lot for your contributions.
 

Lozboss

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Miss you PK! Thanks for the advice both personal and more widespread you have offered.
 

Tenacity

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Between working, spinning plates and focusing on my individual life goals, I rarely have time to visit this place anymore. On top of that, I have pretty much said everything regarding what men need to know about women. Its pretty simple:
  • Women care ONLY about what you can do for them
  • NEVER care more about the relationship than the woman does
  • Your job is to get laid, HER job is to "bond" emotionally
  • Women will NOT bring you happiness
  • Be the best man you can be for YOUR sake
  • Live by YOUR rules and values 24/7, not women's
  • Don't be a pathetic, desperate, beta b!tch
  • Stop kissing female ass
  • Don't be a white knight
I am not necessarily leaving SoSuave. I just won't be here very often. But I'll still pop in occasionally to give advice.

Stay strong men. And stay awake.
Poon King,

If you are still reading this, I'm wondering can you put together a "Book of Poon King" similar to the Book of Pook? OR, do you mind if I do it :)?

The way you think is the way I think, it's always great to find somebody else in this universe that fully understands that this market of women is NOT the same as it was pre-women's liberation and pre-feminism, and how gynocentrism and feminism have totally destroyed the dating relations.

I just had to let one of my plates go tonight. I got tired of the damn chick trying to control the fvck out of me. She wasn't even cute to me to be honest, she just had a very nice A.SS and some good pvssy lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Poon King

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Poon King,

If you are still reading this, I'm wondering can you put together a "Book of Poon King" similar to the Book of Pook? OR, do you mind if I do it :)?

The way you think is the way I think, it's always great to find somebody else in this universe that fully understands that this market of women is NOT the same as it was pre-women's liberation and pre-feminism, and how gynocentrism and feminism have totally destroyed the dating relations.

I just had to let one of my plates go tonight. I got tired of the damn chick trying to control the fvck out of me. She wasn't even cute to me to be honest, she just had a very nice A.SS and some good pvssy lol.
I don't have the time to put a book together, but you can use my posts to create a book if you like.

And I agree with you. Most men treat 2016 women like the women of 1950.. then wonder why they fail and get walked on. Its a different game and men need to wake up.
 

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I don't have the time to put a book together, but you can use my posts to create a book if you like.

And I agree with you. Most men treat 2016 women like the women of 1950.. then wonder why they fail and get walked on. Its a different game and men need to wake up.
That is the most pertinent thought I have read on here in a while. Treat women like trash and they will love you...Treat them like gold and they will leave you......
 

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I wanted to bump this thread. I'm pretty busy right now but I wanted to let Poon King know that I'm looking at putting together a "Book of Poon King", which is sort of a way of competing with the "Book of Pook". I think Pook made a lot of great observations but I think Poon King's analysis and judgment is more IN LINE with the current state of market affairs.

Hopefully it can get in the DJ Bible alongside the Book of Pook. To me the Book of Pook was like the summary of all there is to be a Don Juan, the Book of Poon King would be more of a summary of what it is to be a MGTOW.

I honestly believe being MGTOW is the solution to today's market situation, rather than being a Don Juan. You can be a MGTOW and still get laid, I'm not sure why some people believe that going MGTOW means you aren't looking to still lay women.
 

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"Live by YOUR rules and values" I only read one post of this guy and I already like this guy... Not one of the sheep, sounds like a man who manifests his own destiny.
 

Speculator E

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I wanted to bump this thread. I'm pretty busy right now but I wanted to let Poon King know that I'm looking at putting together a "Book of Poon King", which is sort of a way of competing with the "Book of Pook". I think Pook made a lot of great observations but I think Poon King's analysis and judgment is more IN LINE with the current state of market affairs.

Hopefully it can get in the DJ Bible alongside the Book of Pook. To me the Book of Pook was like the summary of all there is to be a Don Juan, the Book of Poon King would be more of a summary of what it is to be a MGTOW.

I honestly believe being MGTOW is the solution to today's market situation, rather than being a Don Juan. You can be a MGTOW and still get laid, I'm not sure why some people believe that going MGTOW means you aren't looking to still lay women.
Great Idea. Would like to see it when it's done. Poon King was a few other names I think but don't remember.
"Live by YOUR rules and values" I only read one post of this guy and I already like this guy... Not one of the sheep, sounds like a man who manifests his own destiny.
Great Idea. Would love to see it when it comes out. Poon King was crazy but told the truth as it is. He was also a few other names too. Kept on getting banned because he hurted a lot of AFC feelings.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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