Farewell Don Juans and all the best!

[Jariel]

First of all I want to give my respects and my humble thanks to everyone who has helped me transform my life. I always thought that Internet forums were a place where losers waste away their insignificant lives, but I found a lot here and have made incredible improvements from the advice and motivation I've received. I can't express how grateful I am!

Thanks also to the moderators for doing their best to keep on top of things and the work they put into this site. I'm sure many people's lives have benefitted from your efforts.

Unfortunately, through no fault of the owner or the mods, this place is pretty much a lost cause now and has turned into just another means for lonely geeks to waste their time and sink further into their rut. I'm not bitter about that, it happens. If it gives them a purpose and keeps them locked out of sight then maybe it's a good thing. But these aren't my kind of people and I don't like interacting with them.

I don't need seduction help or self improvement plans any more as I'm exactly where I want to be, I'm cool, charismatic and confident, I'm looking good and I've got the relationship of my dreams. However, I wanted to stick around on this forum to help people who needed it the way others helped me. I hope that I have managed to do that for some people.

But for now, I'm following many of the other old "master don juans" and calling it a day here.

Thanks again to all the cool people on here and best regards! It's been a pleasure!

Jariel :wave:

 

[spider_007]

HEYYY!!!!!! good luck :flowers:

come back around, once in a while.....

 

[AngelusPUA]

Good luck mate, wish you all the best

 

[B-Lemond]

It was nice having you here!



When I'm in the UK I'll make sure to see how you are doing.

 

[Desdinova]

Take care man, and best of luck to you through your life-long journey!

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Score:

Trolls: 102

DJ's: 0

It was nice having you and you definitely have found the truth.

 

[WesCottII]

Ah..........dammit.

 

[killbill]

come back and post something every once in awhile..ok?

 

[Taviii]

This also goes through my mind more often than ever because I hardly ever visit the other forums, I just come back for A & E and H & F...

Anyway all the best to you mate! Cheers!

 

[Unregistered]

Good luck and thank you; I've learned a great deal from your posting.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Best of luck, man... I've been spending less and less time here and can see myself eventually leaving for good, as well.

My life has gotten way too busy/exciting to even bother thinking about posting here, lately.... and when i do come around is just a huge dissapointment.

Thanx for the great posts.

 

[Titanium]

Jariel,

I’m relatively new here, so never really had a chance to hang out with you – cyberly speaking. Too bad, that.

From my experience, boards tend to go through phases and cycles….and while I can’t really judge this place, I am hoping that its just a rather chaotic phase, per se….amidst the ebb and flow of things.

Because in concept, its really great - a support board for men. A valuable resource. I see there are some good, integritous members here, like yourself, and hopefully that will prevail in the end.

 

[Nighthawk]

You were the wind beneath my wings.

 

[penkitten]

see ya later jariel!

 

[KarmaSutra]

You were the wind beneath my wings.

This is probably the most homosexual line I've ever read. :crazy:

 

[Consent]

While most of what you say in your farewell message is true about this place being useless because it is run by "lonely geeks", I think you were not very helpful on this site either. You talked constantly about how it all basically comes down to looking good for the girl or that you should never walk up to anyone unless you already know them from friends. These are examples of having limiting beliefs.

 

[( . )( . )]

A constant reinforcement of how the pioneers are crap, no REAL advice ever given apart from the "be hot and in shape like me and you will get loads of women", regularly shaming blokes who have a back bone with women and the steady flow of "love will conquer all" grey area theory sh!t that I loathe was basically it.

For me personally pretty much everything you typed was sh!t smeared nonsense easily found on any mainstream dating column, as Consent already said you do have very limited beliefs.

That aside its nothing personal, you may even be a cool guy and your right about this place, its definately become bad for the soul and non productive more often than not.

But listen man no matter how much you disagreed wth my sh!t, trust me and try and let this sink in a little bit at least.

"LTR's" are not the be all and end all of what a man should strive to achieve in life.

 

[IsiMan84]

this place is pretty much a lost cause now and has turned into just another means for lonely geeks to waste their time and sink further into their rut.

I'm following many of the other old "master don juans" and calling it a day here.

"Longevity does not constitute greatness."

I find myself giving better advice sometimes than I see coming from some with high post counts and/or 3-4 years on the forum. Especially when I see people who just joined this month of July (only 12 days in) with almost 200 posts, I can't trust that anybody is legit based on their statistical credentials alone. Which is usually the first thing most people look at.

 

[The Truth]

Best of luck dude! I really enjoyed the maturity of your posts!

To the above critics - Jariel is a realist and knows it takes hard work to achieve goals. A lot of his stuff I read spoke about having friends and a social life, the right mindset and making the most of yourself, not just improving your looks.

Anyway drop by and share any revelations won't you?

 

[Jariel]

Thanks for the (mostly) kind words! I will be sure to drop by once in a while or maybe one day I'll be back seeking more help. I hope not, but never say never. Those women have a way of fvcking with your head sometimes!

And to my nemesis Titman, all the best mate. I doubt we'll ever see eye to eye, but I've enjoyed the debates and in all fairness I've appreciated having my views challenged.

My respects to you all. I hope you can keep this forum alive and well.