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Senior Don Juan
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You should check out over at fastseduction.com..... if you're not already, formhandle keeps that site super tight from trolls and the shat posts.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Farewell Don Juans and all the best!
- Thread starter Jariel
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Docs
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Jarielll!
I've also noticed that I'm posting less and less....meh
Bug me by PM!
I've also noticed that I'm posting less and less....meh
Bug me by PM!
SELF-MASTERY
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Jariel, you are a cool guy........ despite your inability to cold approach :kick: :kick: :moon: :moon:
Best of luck
Best of luckBonhomme
Master Don Juan
Good luck, mate. Your on the money posts will be missed. Drop in every now & then.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Good luck in the future Jariel.
Your one of the peoples whos posted I respected and took note on.
You will be missed im sure.
I know what you mean about the site. It has gone down hill abit lately. Alot of KBJ's.
Hope things get better.
Anyways. Good luck and......
Sarge On!
Your one of the peoples whos posted I respected and took note on.
You will be missed im sure.
I know what you mean about the site. It has gone down hill abit lately. Alot of KBJ's.
Hope things get better.
Anyways. Good luck and......
Sarge On!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.