Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't think you have anything but useless troll stories. Your stories don't even add up.retired_dude said:Don't hate. When you folks are my age you will be poor (the U.S. dollar is on its last legs and will be worthless in the future, inflation is here to stay, $100 oil, personal and national debt up the a$$, and wars against fake enemies that will cost you trillions that you don't have!) and married to a woman who is to old to get pregnant! So don't hate just because I have someone who is younger than the daughters of most guys my age.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Funny you mention her. My friend worked as an extra on the set of "Honey" which starred Jessica Alba. ON movie sets they tell you not to look at the movie stars becaue it makes them feel uncomfortable.MikeYikes122 said:I don't necessarily mean a chick like Jessica Alba, though if you have had an experience with someone like her I'd certainly like to hear about it.
That's got to be one of the scariest things I ever seen.wayword said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OPhatE1vis said:Ever see Amy Winehouse before she got all cracked out? MUCH better.
http://celebodies.wordpress.com/2007/03/29/amy-winehouse/
I saw MikieYikes kissing Ms. Piggy from Sesame street on Rodeo Drive!!! I always knew this TROLL liked the fat fake ones!!MikeYikes122 said:Just out of curiosity, anyone here ever hook up with or hit on a girl who is famous or a celebrity in some capacity? I don't necessarily mean a chick like Jessica Alba,
Are you all prostitutes ?retired_dude said:Your daughters screw guys because of what that guy can give them. It was no different with me. Are we all prostitutes?