You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't think you have anything but useless troll stories. Your stories don't even add up.retired_dude said:Don't hate. When you folks are my age you will be poor (the U.S. dollar is on its last legs and will be worthless in the future, inflation is here to stay, $100 oil, personal and national debt up the a$$, and wars against fake enemies that will cost you trillions that you don't have!) and married to a woman who is to old to get pregnant! So don't hate just because I have someone who is younger than the daughters of most guys my age.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Funny you mention her. My friend worked as an extra on the set of "Honey" which starred Jessica Alba. ON movie sets they tell you not to look at the movie stars becaue it makes them feel uncomfortable.MikeYikes122 said:I don't necessarily mean a chick like Jessica Alba, though if you have had an experience with someone like her I'd certainly like to hear about it.
That's got to be one of the scariest things I ever seen.wayword said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
OPhatE1vis said:Ever see Amy Winehouse before she got all cracked out? MUCH better.
http://celebodies.wordpress.com/2007/03/29/amy-winehouse/
I saw MikieYikes kissing Ms. Piggy from Sesame street on Rodeo Drive!!! I always knew this TROLL liked the fat fake ones!!MikeYikes122 said:Just out of curiosity, anyone here ever hook up with or hit on a girl who is famous or a celebrity in some capacity? I don't necessarily mean a chick like Jessica Alba,
Are you all prostitutes ?retired_dude said:Your daughters screw guys because of what that guy can give them. It was no different with me. Are we all prostitutes?