"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Family Business

escobar04

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ok, heres the problem

I have this cousin, shes 20 and looks very very good

shes my first cousin and I've known her forever. keep in mind that I'm an absolutely normal induvidual with a sane mind

well, i dont know if shes like that to everybody but she goes crazy when she sees me

I mean a family hug and a little kiss on the cheek isnt bad at all but she takes it waaaay too far

she keeps on holding to me during hugs, feeling my body and gives me multiple kisses on my neck and stuff like that

I feel really really akward but doint wanna say anything, or maybe I should

anyways, what should I do?? I know its not normal but I feel realy akward
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sleep with her...

Have kids with 11 toes...

Move to Bulgaria where they tolerate these things.

:D

Ok, my cousin is also like that. There's this thing about being family, that's like being in a deep gay-friend zone. :) To her, you're prolly the biggest AFC in the world - cause you're family.

Hard to explain. But imagine how chicks work kino on gay men friends. I'm sure you've seen it in a movie. She feels she can do anything around you, because you won't do anything back, because you're family.

Eish... I confused myself now.
 

Morphiex

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just dont get a hard-on whilke getting one of her hugs..... =P

nah but for real, if u feel that ackward , so bad that u cant stand it , just tell her to ease up a litle bit, then shell will prolly not speak to you for a couple of months...

so you have to chose , long ackward hugs or not having the same rlt with your cousin and not speaking to her in a loong while.....
 

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Its probably not a good idea to bang your cousin so just go watch some porn.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude! That's weird. She should know it! Give her an uneasy smile next time.
 
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