"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
False Compliments.
- Thread starter Adrian
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
2xp
Don Juan
lol . this is funny. it looks like adrian is learning life and just discovered that there are girls out there. look at his other post about girls not saying goodbye or other matters.WELCOME TO PLANET EARTH. and welcome to adulthood
yeah, i know, i don't help and i am a jerk
ok, i have one advice tough : do the bootcamp (look at the DJ BIBLE or use the search feature) , it will force you to socialize. i think you'll be shot down many many times till you'll cry like a baby but at least you'll learn fast.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
To tell the truth, I don't give a **** about any compliment a girl tells me. I consider them all crap. But some of my afc friends, just love when a girl gives them one of them.
For instance, once at a bar I was chillin with a girl and 4 of my friends. I wasn't intrested in the girl, so I didn't really give a crap, about what she thinks. Then suddenly she starts telling us who she would like and wouldn't like to date. The two of my afc friends were considered nice and a great date. But as you all suspected none of them have a gf at the moment.